I check out ts ads all the time and based on looking at ads I've gotten the same idea that a lot of the providers seem to want to top. A lot of the ads never mention anything about being versatile. Over the years I've called a few and inquired. There was one former ts pornstar who typically was a bottom in vids (don't remember who it was even though I remember this incident trying to catch her when she was in town), but when I called her she told me she strongly preferred topping which was a shock to me. Given I'm a top I told her I'd just call another provider as I generally find those who are more inclined to be tops aren't always good bottoms and rush you to finish. I can see though that a lot of providers are appealing to guys who want to bottom though.
I recently saw a provider who has her own website and videos all over the net of her topping guys. She's known for being quite the top and even though I don't typically like to see ts topping guys I must say her vids are pretty impressive even to me. I saw in her more recent ads she lists that she's versatile which I always wondered about but she never used to say that in her ads and none of her vids ever showed her being the bottom. Well despite my reservations I was too intrigued and I went to see her one night recently. To make the story short she ended up being a great bottom and I plan to see her more. By the way I did attempt to write a review on her here, but she's apparently delisted so my review wasn't approved hence why I didn't mention her name.Can anyone tell me why most TS escorts in North American seem to be the dominant type and they seem to prefer to top. Many only top? This seem ironic to me. Does anyone have an opinion why this is so?
I disagree that most TS escorts are tops. In fact, I would say that most prefer to bottom or switch. Are you actually visiting girls or just looking at ads. I think a lot of girls (and ALL scammers) will put top in their ad to appeal to more customers. When you get behind closed doors, many of them are actually bottoms or verse. In my experience, 95% of girls will bottom but only about 50% will (or can) top. At least that's how it's been with me...
Most is from looking at gurls. I usually do Girls/Girls. I see a TS once or twice a year. I asked for some role play where the TS dressed in a business suit and play my sex therapist or psychologist and seduced me. a great fantasy but the two time I did this the girl wanted to dominate me and top me. So I will do a different scenario. I am interviewing a gurl for a secretary job and she is desperate to get the job or something like this. Anyway, I seem to bring out the dominant side in some of the girls. With girl girls I am very dominant. I will try this with TS gurls and see where it goes.
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I agree with Tim. Ive gotten responses where during sessions with verse ladies they get a high volume of bottom guys and are glad when i come to top them. To your point of " I seem to bring out the dominant side in some of the girls" this to can be a true statement as i have also seen some verse girls who only want to fuck me. But a higher percent of the ladies that ive seen personally have wanted to bottom. I really think especially with a vers ts its all about how they perceive the client which determines how they will act during session (more top, more bottom).
On a side note ive talked in depth with a few providers about the game and i almost always got the same answer. Most clients call and they want to be topped or are mostly interested in the cock. Which is why the ads are probably a bit more geared towards that.
I prefer my girls to be girls, to me an extra plaything is a bonus no different from performing cunnilingus. This "topping" issue is a deal breaker IMVVHO, not my cup of tea at all. I reason that if a guy wants to be "topped", why not just go to a "Bear" site and link up with a hairy big man who will happily ram it to you. It is insensible to burden feminine TS with the task of topping you, I have to legitimately question why one would have such a desire.
You associate a hard cock and the desire to use it with masculinity. It's this kind of thinking that compel many girls to have SRS
Bro:
I don't associate personally, just making an observation from a non-sub position (so to speak). I simply prefer to treat my TS as the women they are in the Hermaphrodite mode. This makes me happy and I hope makes them happy also... 
Simple answer... many like the female form and cock. The idea of being with a hairy "bear" makes me ill.
You associate a hard cock and the desire to use it with masculinity. It's this kind of thinking that compel many girls to have SRS.
I secretly agree with him, even tho i get the concept of the female form blah blah blah.
Interesting observations, Sir...
You might also just tell them what you want out of the session. I know that may be oversimplifying, but it usually works! Does sound like a fun fantasy, although I admit the secretary trying to get a job lends itself more to the girl being the sub...
wgy are gg's "girls" and ts' "gurls"? just curious
I check out ts ads all the time and based on looking at ads I've gotten the same idea that a lot of the providers seem to want to top. A lot of the ads never mention anything about being versatile. Over the years I've called a few and inquired. There was one former ts pornstar who typically was a bottom in vids (don't remember who it was even though I remember this incident trying to catch her when she was in town), but when I called her she told me she strongly preferred topping which was a shock to me. Given I'm a top I told her I'd just call another provider as I generally find those who are more inclined to be tops aren't always good bottoms and rush you to finish. I can see though that a lot of providers are appealing to guys who want to bottom though.
I recently saw a provider who has her own website and videos all over the net of her topping guys. She's known for being quite the top and even though I don't typically like to see ts topping guys I must say her vids are pretty impressive even to me. I saw in her more recent ads she lists that she's versatile which I always wondered about but she never used to say that in her ads and none of her vids ever showed her being the bottom. Well despite my reservations I was too intrigued and I went to see her one night recently. To make the story short she ended up being a great bottom and I plan to see her more. By the way I did attempt to write a review on her here, but she's apparently delisted so my review wasn't approved hence why I didn't mention her name.
or are not sticking to what you really want. plenty of sexy bottom only or preferred gals out there
I think u just have to communicate what you want. Somehow my fav TS and I have morphed into me being the bottom. I need to let her know my desires....