he inspiration for this post comes from something i just found out about-and i,m sure alot of ladies can relate to and understand..a certain person i work with told someone who asked about me that i was on vacation for a few weeks--even though i wasnt and dont plan to be.she told this to someone who had seen her and was interested in seeing me--she had already made her money and was trying blackball my business.i have some thoughts on that.
Its behavioral and financial tactics like this that make it SO IMPORTANT for any young entertainer to have a means for which those who like seeing her to contact her directly without having to do through indirect channels or other people.a website or phone number or email(or all three) are the best ways to attract and keep your business.even if you dont have the money to build a website,you can make up temporary free pages in the meantime to get you by until you decide to have one built.business cards(disceetly done of course-no naughty pictures or names-those could land your loyal friend in hot water) are also a good idea.alot of times you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT rely on those you work with (if you work with others) to be loyal and do the right and correct thing and not lie-you never know when the person or people you trust will try to rope in your business for themselves.

IMHO,i think anyone who lies about another ladies schedule or so forth,in order to take her clients away or keep her from getting clients is b.s.If you have to be so petty and small that you have to resort to that to make your money you have no business being in the business at all.A smart,focused,indepedant lady would find her business the right and correct way and ADVERTISE..get a site built,advertise online or in the magazines or whatnot-find her own client base without having to be a theif and steal someone elses.Clients are clients-they dont belong to anyone but themselves,and they have the right to see whoever they wish to see and spend their money where they will..but all clients should have the right to FAIR CHOICE..and if you are a lady and you try to bend the choice your way by lying about another lady,well,then you,re really not giving the client his right to a fair choice.If you have to theive other peoples clients away to make your monthly expenses,then that means its time to do one of two things..either step up your game by advertising or giving yourself a makeover, trying out new means in which to find people,or ,perhaps the hobby isnt for you and you need to find something else,because you,re not making enough money to live.

we ladies need to stick together-we have enough crap to worry about without turning on each other and making it more stressful-if someone contacts you and asks you to give a referral to another lady-and you,ve seen them and they were cool-do the right thing-do it.variety is the spice of life-people wander,but they come back to other people who were nice to them and did the right thing.trying to be a hobby scrooge and keep every client to yourself doesnt work,and if you act possessive they will leave alot sooner and NEVER return

and sometimes,just sometimes,when you backstab someone by trying to blackball their business,the word of what you,ve done will get back to them and then you,ll have one very ticked off lady to deal with..karma is a britch.the internet is a big place,and lots of people talk about things they,ve done here...and thats how the person who lied about me go caught red handed..she will be dealt with.

if you are a client and you are curIous about a girls activities or when she works or so forth,before believing a third party,CONTACT HER DIRECTLY IF SHE HAS A MEANS TO DO SO...call her,email her,page her...better from the horse mouth then a jealous horses rear.

well,i,ve spoken,any thoughts?thanks...everyone have a great day