I wish people could focus their evil acts toward a more suitable and less innocent victom like big corporations or the IRS.
AOOP
I have also had the unfortunate luck of being robbed/ripped off. I had a new client book a 3 hour meeting and he asked if I could get the room in advance of his coming since he was driving from out of town. I thought it was reasonable, especially after I called to confirm his arrival. He placed the agreed amount on the table and we began to party. I excused myself to the bathroom, I left my handbag with my wallet,cash & credit cards as well as his donation. From the bathroom I heard the door open and he was gone with everything. I learned a very hard lesson that night. By the way, he wasn't a TER member!
I wish people could focus their evil acts toward a more suitable and less innocent victom like big corporations or the IRS.
AOOP
I have never been ripped off.....not once. I almost always go into the bathroom to do a little clean-up routine I've established. Money, car keys, wallet, donation always left out alone with MY girl.
Not only have I never been ripped off, I've had providers do some of the nicest, most ethical things. Staying the night for free, telling me that I gave too much after I went home, offering to send it back, stuffing money into my pants pocket when I was in the bathroom with a little love note, etc.
I've long maintained that providers are some of the sweetest and most ethical people I ever meet.
I'm really sorry that happened to you. Gotta feel so shitty, but that's got to be very, very rare. In the big picture, he lost more than you that day.
Jacksonlips
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I'm reasonably new at this game, but the women I've met have been sweet (as well as beautiful). When we parted, I felt like I got my money's worth. A good time, with no surprises except that they were SOOOO nice.
I can only hope that as I explore more, the surprises continue to be positive ones.
Have no idea how long or how often you've been doing this but eventually you will run across a ROB unless you stick to only well established and reviewed ladies.
It is not as rare as you think.
I guess that I've been lucky also (along with being somewhat selective), but the providers I have been with have been nothing less than wonderful. One even wrote me after a two hour session (in which she talked quite a bit)and advised that she would give me the full two hours for a one hour fee. She was very apologetic and wanted to insure that I had enjoyed the session.
I guess if you're trying to go through every provider in the City you might experience some bad luck sooner or later, but if you keep it down to a few regulars and ATF's, you should do OK.
I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm sure you will get criticized for not counting the money upfront. But frankly, neither do I. I don't like to break the illusion that I'm creating and second, I am paranoid about LE. And I've rarely been ripped off.
I'd say, at least take your handbag with you to the loo next time! Or leave all your credit cards and personal info locked in your car!
I also had a similar experience a long long time ago w/ a regular but he took my wallet w/everything in it.
I now take my purse with me everywhere I go...whether it's the bathroom, bedroom or to tour his house.
I had one reg get offended when I took my purse to the restroom with me after our encounter, but I explained that I bring things to clean-up with (which I do).
Be careful out there and thank God he didn't hurt you! He sounds like he could have gone through the session (if you hadn't gone to the restroom before hand) and then demanded his money back and you could have possibly gotten hurt.
If you work alone...have a friend to check in with...he doesn't know if you've told your friend this guys info or not this will keep him on his best behaviour!
Good Luck Rain,
May sunnier days come your way!
Hugs,
Dee Taylor
humans are the only spicies that blush, and the only one that needs to. I think it was Mark Twain
know that the person KNOWS that he is accountable then just be very careful. I always lock up everything in my glove compartment in my car. When traveling with a client I keep everything closer to me than my own implants. Never know when I need to call emergency, so to speak. I've heard of clients going through a woman's luggage and then blackmailing her.
At the same time, I have NEVER experienced anything close to that, in fact the gents show GREAT TRUST. I know they make a choice to do this. You made a choice as well. But just be aware that you are making that choice. And know that you also have a right to make a different choice based on your comfort zone.
