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What a wonderful group on men we have here in this forum.

Just to tell you all of some of my tools and tricks.  Where I do not have much control and only a small amount of input as to any supplements my gentlemen take.  I do suggest keeping the alcohol intake to a minimum prior to having sex.  And aside from maybe some marijuana, ZERO "party substances, to those prone to that sort of thing.  I also suggest refraining from "handling things yourself" as much as possible.  And for some I might suggest No Tuna Fish for 1 week or more before we meet, and adding plenty of fruit like strawberries, blueberries and bananas to their diet.  And oddly enough Dark Chocolate can help, so I often have some of that with me.  

For those who mostly just have trouble getting or keeping an erection, usually comes down to blood flow issues.  Meaning not enough blood flow in, or stopping the blood from flowing back out.   So for this I find taking my time and using oral stimulation, more to the point, oral suction, to draw the blood up into the penis.  Much like a pump would do.  It can take some practice to get the hang of this. ( but that is pretty fun too).  Keeping  the stimulation steady to key to this working.  Now in order top maintain the erection I have found that a jelly ring works great.  It is a small (very inexpensive) ring, made of a very stretchy jelly like material.  I apply this at the soonest when he is almost fully erect.  And continue with the oral power suction.  The ring applies just enough pressure on the base of the penis to stop the blood from flowing back out of the penis.  It should be worn as far down on the penis as possible.  A second one can be applied around the balls, if the gentleman likes.  (some do).  Nice thing about these are that they are not to tight as to cause discomfort, also because they are so stretchy they can be applied and removed very easily.  Remember to remove right after you finish, to restore normal blood flow. (very important)  Also, as mentioned by others, changing positions can be to much of a break in the action and cause a loss of firmness, So I find that just going with his favorite position, and staying hot and heavy with that 1 position to completion works best also.

Care and understanding and willingness to take my time with everything is also KEY to success

Thanks everyone for your input, and for reading this post

"A"



Have any of you mature gentlemen with various erection issues tried other solutions?  
I use many different approaches and devices with my friends who have troubles.  So I am wondering if there may be some I have not tried.  And should add to my arsenal of tools.

Thanks

Can you be more specific as what you are familiar with? Pumps. lotions, injections????

The biggest help is patience!!!

I'm four weeks into this treatment. I tested low for it.  Daily morning wood and no problems geting it up later in the day with visual or manual stimulation. However, not all erections lead to ejaculations. That's a bummer. I'm a pretty active and fairly fit 62 yr old and it bothers me that I can't always cum when I'm hard. I do have a couple of beers, or bourbons, or glass or two of wine every nite. I'm thinking of moderating this a little to see if that helps. The testosterone treatments also have some other beneficial effects but I'm not clear what the downside is. I expect to discontinue this in a couple of months and see what happens.

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Doctor prescribed testosterone is the only safe application.... an probably works the best.   The supplements can have adverse effect and are advised against by most doctors.

There's an herbal capsule I use, Mojo Risen. Buy a pack of 10 and its under $5 a hit. I get firmer wood and one capsule is good for about 2 days. Works fast too. When taken in the fast method, it does cause some mega-flushing since it contains so much niacin.

Applied to the shoulders works very well and can be used indefinitely!  Esp. good if your level has already been tested low.  Kalina

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Applied to the shoulders works very well and can be used indefinitely!  Esp. good if your level has already been tested low.  Kalina
Unfortunately libido != ejaculation.  These are 2 separate issues.  Androgel works for low testosterone, and low testosterone gives you a low libido.  What's "libido"?  In my case, it's "being interested in sex".  But being interested in sex is much different than being able to orgasm.  I don't know what works for producing orgasms.  Sometimes even a super hottie, willing and enthusiastic isn't enough...  Although that helps.   :-)



ginseng tea, goji berries, and walnuts.

So far it seems to be doing the trick.

I also take vitamin D supplements per my MD's recomendation, and I think that helps.

Finally, I have a banana every day.  I think that's what keep monkeies so horny.

Horny Goat Weed (really), Yohimbe but be careful with the dose.  I tried 450 mg & had a bad reaction for a couple of days.
I have a progressive condition which damages the spinal cord...  
With my SO...  IF I can get her to have sex, she's lazy & selfish...  while I like to give as good as I get.  She pretty much "lays there" on her back, returns kisses, some body to body contact, legs...  I move on to mouth to breasts work, DATY, but she expects me to be push button when she's ready...  no effort or carressing on her part.  I take about half a 25 mg Viagra, which is usually enough.
With Favs...  after discussion...  we are experimenting with NOT using any V.  The idea is about blood flow...  to keep me up fully as long as possible before ending it.  One pop, granted.  Much more reciprocal...    But it works with a patient lover.

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Most supplements are dangerous to take and can have bad side affects and/or bad interaction with other medication.  Doctor prescribed injections work for some.  Web MD has a pretty good recent article and breakdown of supplements for ED......most are advised against.  Best thing is to get an evaluation from your Doctor to make sure its not something else... then just use the usual pills....injections.... or get a prosthesis.

I'm soon going to be 82 years old.  I've tried the injections, but did not like the needle to my dick.
I also tired a Vac Pump which did nothing for me.
I take 30 mg of Cialis one hour prior to stimulation.  Now this has worked for me, but maybe it is what follows.  I go for the young Asian girls (21 to 30) and the ones who really get into it get me hard.  I had Prostate surgery which eliminated the sperm release.  It feels like I shot a wad, but
no sticky stuff.  I have found that anilingus does wonders for me, both giving and getting.
A BBBJ with fingering my anus makes me fire a great climatic shot.  I am usually only good for one doggy or other penetration.  I enjoy the the DFKing and getting licked and sucked, AND a girl who really works at it with a smile and eye to eye contact.  If I can keep this up for another ten years,
I'll be happy as hell.  My only real problem is limited funds.

Best site for generalized ED info is franktalk.org.

A provider in Wash DC referred me to T-man an over the counter herb
works good or  better for me than viagra without the flu like symptoms

I now buy it on line for about $19.95 for ten
take it an hour or more before

take it in the evening before a session and you will be ready to go the next day as well.

I have a partial spinal cord injury.  Have had ED issues since.  My MD prescribed the various pills to try...  he prescribed the largest 100 mg Viagra & instructed me to get a ill cutter (since the 25, 50, 100s all cost about the same).  I've been using about half of the 25 mg dose.  
With SO, she really doesn't encourge love making...  more into hurry up & get it over.   I had noticed that in changing positions (stimulation stops) I'd tend to fade with or with out V.  So continueous stim is important.
I've explained to other partners about trying to go without V & it has worked.  If it's all about the blood flow...  then using the chemical means is like teaching the body to respond best to masterbation.   3 tests with 2 gals...  they've had to work harder but it has worked very well indeed.
So I ask if the gent can get an erection at all...   try to keep the action continous.  Even a protracted HJ...

What a wonderful group on men we have here in this forum.

Just to tell you all of some of my tools and tricks.  Where I do not have much control and only a small amount of input as to any supplements my gentlemen take.  I do suggest keeping the alcohol intake to a minimum prior to having sex.  And aside from maybe some marijuana, ZERO "party substances, to those prone to that sort of thing.  I also suggest refraining from "handling things yourself" as much as possible.  And for some I might suggest No Tuna Fish for 1 week or more before we meet, and adding plenty of fruit like strawberries, blueberries and bananas to their diet.  And oddly enough Dark Chocolate can help, so I often have some of that with me.  

For those who mostly just have trouble getting or keeping an erection, usually comes down to blood flow issues.  Meaning not enough blood flow in, or stopping the blood from flowing back out.   So for this I find taking my time and using oral stimulation, more to the point, oral suction, to draw the blood up into the penis.  Much like a pump would do.  It can take some practice to get the hang of this. ( but that is pretty fun too).  Keeping  the stimulation steady to key to this working.  Now in order top maintain the erection I have found that a jelly ring works great.  It is a small (very inexpensive) ring, made of a very stretchy jelly like material.  I apply this at the soonest when he is almost fully erect.  And continue with the oral power suction.  The ring applies just enough pressure on the base of the penis to stop the blood from flowing back out of the penis.  It should be worn as far down on the penis as possible.  A second one can be applied around the balls, if the gentleman likes.  (some do).  Nice thing about these are that they are not to tight as to cause discomfort, also because they are so stretchy they can be applied and removed very easily.  Remember to remove right after you finish, to restore normal blood flow. (very important)  Also, as mentioned by others, changing positions can be to much of a break in the action and cause a loss of firmness, So I find that just going with his favorite position, and staying hot and heavy with that 1 position to completion works best also.

Care and understanding and willingness to take my time with everything is also KEY to success

Thanks everyone for your input, and for reading this post

"A"

the female condom has proven helpful with some

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