So I'm a newbie and looking for some professional advice. I live in Tucson and was just recently introduced to TER and Backpage. I have found a few women here in Tucson that I would REALLY like to meet but all require references which I understand and appreciate! However, without having to go and have multiple GFE with girl's that I don't want to meet with what else can I do??? This would be my second time ever doing this and I'm not sure I want it to be a regular thing but I know for sure I want to try it one more time.  

I even offered to give one girl her hourly donation just to meet me for coffee during the day so that she could decide for herself in a casual environment what she thought of me. I don't know how smart that is but I figured I'd rather give the donation to the girl I want to meet rather than just any girl.  

I have had zero luck with the few girls I'd like to meet and I did read the Newbie Tips and pointers section but also seeing what advice I can get. As it stands I think I have to either give up or meet up with a women that requires zero references and most of those in Tucson I'm not attracted too (no offense).
Thanks for the advice!