They make it sound as if it will really bring on the orgasm when all it did was give a Hot Ice or Ben Gay type of sensation.

If 'she' is having a hard time reaching orgasm, I think both Michelle in one post or another, and I also have posted different things to do.

Most women love receiving great oral sex WHILE having a dildo, or fingers inside. That, together, usually will do the trick. A Sybian is too expensive, so try some lesser expensive toys like the Pocket Rocket, the Hitachi wand, etc..

Let me know if I'm going in the wrong direction for you..