I have gone thru the screening process with a guy. Then I let him know he is cleared. He says okay and he will call me for an appointment. Then he never schedules or do I hear from him again.
Why waste both our times?
Just not right. So I get it Lazer. But know you are not alone. This happens both to the guys as well as the girls. And I am also talking about false accusations as well.
But I truly believe in Karma and that the truth will prevail. I have seen it happen over and over.
You just have to move on and realize it's their loss. And the truth will come out.
i understand the need for providers to screen, avoiding LE as well as dangerous hobbyists, but why when after they screen you and set an appointment do they flake and leave you hanging onto blu balls after making you go all the way across town. If we're safe enuf to pass a reference check to get an appointment, be considerate enough not to back out without something
also, now part of the referral process must go thru a review board on hobbyists, what do you do if you've been trolled, there are such boards, i stumbled on one, tho you cant look up people including yourself unless you have a providers id and password (may be a paid membership service) but how do you defend against malicious misinformation
as a hobbyist i treat providers honestly and with respect and dignity, i dont short them or negotiate, happy to play by their rules, not LE not forceful, don't overstay my time, hope to make them enjoy the time as much as i hope to get out of it, all at the very least, now i'm certain someones making sure i wont get off again. too bad we cant know how to save ourself from false accusations
I have gone thru the screening process with a guy. Then I let him know he is cleared. He says okay and he will call me for an appointment. Then he never schedules or do I hear from him again.
Why waste both our times?
Just not right. So I get it Lazer. But know you are not alone. This happens both to the guys as well as the girls. And I am also talking about false accusations as well.
But I truly believe in Karma and that the truth will prevail. I have seen it happen over and over.
You just have to move on and realize it's their loss. And the truth will come out.
It happens often.
Guys double book.
Girls get a better offer.
It's a waste of each others time, insolent and disrespectful no matter what side of the fence.
At the end of the day you just have to say to yourself that it wasn't a meeting met to happen.
It's probably a mutual blessing in disguise.
False claims can sometimes hurt, sometimes it's not even a blip on your radar.
Those eventually fade and be confident that people who use their brain can read through the fray. Those are the people you want to spend time with.
People who get caught up on drama, rumors, hearsay, etc....aren't worth the time.
t’s all about the Vibes. Sometimes you’re not comfortable with the vibes you get, and remember that sometimes the vibes you get are reflections of the ones you send. If you feel uneasy about your date you should cancel, but don’t NCNS, that’s just rude
There could be many factors that led to what happened. Have you had contact with the Lady since this happened? Did she attempt to explain why? If you have tried to contact her and she did not reply maybe she has some issue that has taken her out of service, so to speak, and she just can't reply. It's too bad it happened but I would give her a opportunity to explain or make it right. Just my two cents.
I am very tired of the last minute cancellations by many of these girls. Even cancellations a few days before makes me mad