I’d like to share a little story.  Yesterday I was in the mood for some fun so I went exploring for someone new.   I had seen a provider’s massage ads for quite some time, probably a couple of years, and after reading three pages of mostly positive review about her great rack and with lots of YMMV comments, I thought what the hell I’ll take the plunge.  Called her, she was pleasant on the phone and we set up a time.   Got to the cross streets and called, said she was running about 10 mins late to the meeting place but she gave me directions and said she’d call when ready.  So I said okay and drove past the place.  There was a guy watering the front lawn as I drove past.  I turned around about a block away and as I was driving past in the opposite direction, she was walking in the house with him.  A few minutes later she called to say she was ready.  I asked what was up with the dude out front watering and she said oh he’s my maintenance guy, oh he’s also a client, its fine.  I thought well okay, I’ll be over but I didn't have a good feeling about it.  As I pulled onto the street another guy pulls in front of the house and parks so I drove down the street a bit and turned around. When I got back to the house he was still sitting in the car.   Needless to say, that was enough for me.  I drove off and turned off my phone.   Maybe she was telling the truth about the first dude, maybe the second guy parked was a coincidence, but then again, maybe not.  I'll never know, but feel I made the right decision.  Bottom line to this story is I've learned to trust my instincts and if doesn't feel right it probably isn't.   So, today I’m going to see someone I know and trust.