What does it mean when a provider tells you this:
"You don't have to pay me"
I have seen a provider and she gave me her number to set something up outside the agency (she is an agency girl). Then I raised the money issue and she said "You don't have to pay me". Is this just a tactic in order for me to feel bad for her and shell out the $$$? She basically said for me to spend the night sometime next week. Me personally, I don't think this "free overnight" will ever happen. But hypothetically, if it did, should I give a donation even though she said I don't have to? And how genuine do you think this comment is? Cheers.
BE CAREFUL. The same thing happened to me last year when an indy told me she wanted to spend a weekend together as "friends" . The weekend happened and as it turns out that was the beginning of the end of our friendship. Remember these ladies are running a business and it is about the money. If you go ahead with this offer, you will get burned. Best to keep your relationship on a business level, not personal level. Good luck whatever you decide.
I don't think she is trying to make you feel bad so you will pay. Please. Who has time to play that game?
She either...
1) wants to see you off the clock (which only you would know whether that is believable or not...but if you aren't sure, don't count on it, because she likely would have said it...she knows that it would be unusual)
2) she wants you to book a date with her under this guise so she gets the whole fee and when you are already there and raring to go tell you that you need to pay
3) wants to have you as her client and cut out the middleman, but isn't sure whether you will tell the agency or not, so until she talks to you about it more, this way, she isn't taking any "business" away from them.
Either way, proceed with caution, and if you feel comfortable with her, talk to HER about it.
But she did say "Don't worry about the money". I am assuming this means nothing in the escort world. So should I take her offer lightly?
Can you explain numbers 1 and 2 please?
1 - she likes you and is sincere
2 - she baits you with a freebie, gets you there and ready to go and then switches to you having to pay for it, then keeps the whole fee instead of splitting with the agency
Thanks for your replies all. I will take each one of your comments into consideration (and basically take this offer with a grain of salt). Happy Hobbying guys. Cheers.