Phoenix

Re: I've met all kinds
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Thank you for sharing that.  I find that true sexual fullfillment (which is directly linked to a fullfilled & happy life) comes through exploration & communication.  Unfortunately a lot of pros in general are only here to make $$, they don't necessarily care about what you want.  I see how difficult it can be for a gentleman (especially one who is kinky) to find someone who is truly here to make your dreams/fantasies come true.  I get that all the time.  The surprise when I say yes to everything that is asked of me & love every minute.  While I do not consider myself a true Domina (as I am more of a sensual/sexual sadist), I like to have the best of both worlds (which also explains why I am a switch depending on who I am with).  I wish you the best in your searches love.  Thank you again for enlightening us all with your wisdom :)

XoXo
Caramel
Posted By: DLStorm
I'd like to think I do a good job of research and filtering now, but my earlier experiences were all over the board.  Part of the issue that makes it more difficult for me is that in my fetish play I am the more dominant one - there are tons of women who advertise (like in the BDSM/fetish section of BP) as dommes, but extremely few pro subs, which is really what I'm looking for.   While I've found a few very good pro subs (I travel all over) in general the play is very sterile in terms of two-way sexuality with pro BSDMers, and while I do not have sex with playmates I do prefer enjoying mutual sensuality and sexuality as part of fetish play.  
   
 This is why often an ideal playmate for me also advertises as an escort, even if we're not going to be doing traditional 'escorty' things together.  They are just girls who are generally much more open and less uptight about connecting sensually.  I've had cases where despite being very specific with someone about our playtime, she just wanted an appointment and after looking on her phone for 1/2 hour just said, 'yeah, I'm not really into that, can I just give you head?".  I immediately sent her out the door.  Given that I always do 3 hour play sessions, they're not cheap.  I've had other very good experiences too, but it's just hard to know in advance.   It's also not easy making phone calls where before we know anything about each other I'm having to say "well, I'm really in to X, Y, and Z, what do you think?" as maybe only 30% of the girls I select to contact by filtering are open-minded enough for it, and I have feelings too and don't like getting rejected any more than anyone else does.   When people meet me they usually become very comfortable quickly and are open to trying what might be very new to them, but agreeing to a non-vanilla fetish playdate ahead of time with someone they've never met is often an understandably difficult leap, and I'm not going to set up a session with a girl without explaining everything up front in the first place.  
   
   
 

Hey guys who is the wildest provider in Phoenix? I mean S&M, G/S, Hard Kissing, etc. Any ideas?

Posted By: Rocknrolla
Hey guys who is the wildest provider in Phoenix? I mean S&M, G/S, Hard Kissing, etc. Any ideas?

AZCalvin69840 reads

Didn't want to name names here so check your PM. She's psycho which can lead to great sex but if not careful you might get caught in her games...

AZCalvin69984 reads

To be clear, my reference was NOT to Danielledoll. I've never had the pleasure to meet Danielledoll. My comment was referring to someone else.

You got my attention.  lol Smile 4 me!

I will be visiting Phoenix early next month and I will be looking for a lady who enjoys light BDSM and toys.

If not, I have a gorgeous friend who is well known for this :)

XoXo
Caramel

Posted By: DCGent1968
I will be visiting Phoenix early next month and I will be looking for a lady who enjoys light BDSM and toys.

I'm a major kink player and most all pure BDSM/fetish pros are completely non-sexual (at all), but searching through escort ads that say 'fetish friendly' typically just means some sort of weak kid's play like 'sure you can suck on my toes'.  Thanks for starting this thread.

That's unfortunate :(

XoXo
Caramel

Posted By: DLStorm
searching through escort ads that say 'fetish friendly' typically just means some sort of weak kid's play like 'sure you can suck on my toes'.  Thanks for starting this thread.

I'd like to think I do a good job of research and filtering now, but my earlier experiences were all over the board.  Part of the issue that makes it more difficult for me is that in my fetish play I am the more dominant one - there are tons of women who advertise (like in the BDSM/fetish section of BP) as dommes, but extremely few pro subs, which is really what I'm looking for.   While I've found a few very good pro subs (I travel all over) in general the play is very sterile in terms of two-way sexuality with pro BSDMers, and while I do not have sex with playmates I do prefer enjoying mutual sensuality and sexuality as part of fetish play.

This is why often an ideal playmate for me also advertises as an escort, even if we're not going to be doing traditional 'escorty' things together.  They are just girls who are generally much more open and less uptight about connecting sensually.  I've had cases where despite being very specific with someone about our playtime, she just wanted an appointment and after looking on her phone for 1/2 hour just said, 'yeah, I'm not really into that, can I just give you head?".  I immediately sent her out the door.  Given that I always do 3 hour play sessions, they're not cheap.  I've had other very good experiences too, but it's just hard to know in advance.   It's also not easy making phone calls where before we know anything about each other I'm having to say "well, I'm really in to X, Y, and Z, what do you think?" as maybe only 30% of the girls I select to contact by filtering are open-minded enough for it, and I have feelings too and don't like getting rejected any more than anyone else does.   When people meet me they usually become very comfortable quickly and are open to trying what might be very new to them, but agreeing to a non-vanilla fetish playdate ahead of time with someone they've never met is often an understandably difficult leap, and I'm not going to set up a session with a girl without explaining everything up front in the first place

Thank you for sharing that.  I find that true sexual fullfillment (which is directly linked to a fullfilled & happy life) comes through exploration & communication.  Unfortunately a lot of pros in general are only here to make $$, they don't necessarily care about what you want.  I see how difficult it can be for a gentleman (especially one who is kinky) to find someone who is truly here to make your dreams/fantasies come true.  I get that all the time.  The surprise when I say yes to everything that is asked of me & love every minute.  While I do not consider myself a true Domina (as I am more of a sensual/sexual sadist), I like to have the best of both worlds (which also explains why I am a switch depending on who I am with).  I wish you the best in your searches love.  Thank you again for enlightening us all with your wisdom :)

XoXo
Caramel

Posted By: DLStorm
I'd like to think I do a good job of research and filtering now, but my earlier experiences were all over the board.  Part of the issue that makes it more difficult for me is that in my fetish play I am the more dominant one - there are tons of women who advertise (like in the BDSM/fetish section of BP) as dommes, but extremely few pro subs, which is really what I'm looking for.   While I've found a few very good pro subs (I travel all over) in general the play is very sterile in terms of two-way sexuality with pro BSDMers, and while I do not have sex with playmates I do prefer enjoying mutual sensuality and sexuality as part of fetish play.  
   
 This is why often an ideal playmate for me also advertises as an escort, even if we're not going to be doing traditional 'escorty' things together.  They are just girls who are generally much more open and less uptight about connecting sensually.  I've had cases where despite being very specific with someone about our playtime, she just wanted an appointment and after looking on her phone for 1/2 hour just said, 'yeah, I'm not really into that, can I just give you head?".  I immediately sent her out the door.  Given that I always do 3 hour play sessions, they're not cheap.  I've had other very good experiences too, but it's just hard to know in advance.   It's also not easy making phone calls where before we know anything about each other I'm having to say "well, I'm really in to X, Y, and Z, what do you think?" as maybe only 30% of the girls I select to contact by filtering are open-minded enough for it, and I have feelings too and don't like getting rejected any more than anyone else does.   When people meet me they usually become very comfortable quickly and are open to trying what might be very new to them, but agreeing to a non-vanilla fetish playdate ahead of time with someone they've never met is often an understandably difficult leap, and I'm not going to set up a session with a girl without explaining everything up front in the first place.  
   
   
 

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