YOU DO NOT BELONG IN THE BUSINESS!
You are absolutely right Jeffrey! The whole point of the experience is that the gentleman gets to CHOOSE what he wants, & the obvious result should be that he get EXACTLY that!! Misrepresentation is THEFT. Plain & simple. Have a little pride in your business ladies! Such dishonesty really only results in disappointment & completely defeats the purpose of the Hobby. I am of course talking above & beyond the normal cropping your face out of pics for privacy, blurring tattoos or other distinguishing marks, or things of that nature. This is why I advertise correctly, post current pictures, & plaster BBW on everything... It would be just as much of a disappointment for me if the gentleman showed up for our Date & didn't like what he saw... then again, I care about my business & reputation.
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Just commentary, not directed at anyone specific, not trying to ignite anything inflammatory, but, in the 10+ years I've been a poster here, I don't ever remember more Providers trying to pass themselves off as something that they just aren't. Example: Many ads that say "I'm GFE, blah-blah-blah," only to discover that she only does CBJ, NEVER BBBJ. Is that "GFE?" Well, it depends upon whose definition, I suppose, but poll the guys and see!
And, what about phony photos? I'm constantly reading reviews that mention how "the person at the door was NOT the person pictured in her ad"
And, yes, I'm weight-sensitive, and I've NEVER, EVER seen so many woman who are LARGE and LARGER advertising, yet they must not look at themselves. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a BBW-shape, but, if you are 5'6' and 240, please classify yourself as BBW. I think a little truth in advertising would go a long way for everyone. There are so many guys out there looking these days, I think this Hobby would be more fun for all with some honesty.
There's my rant, now back to Cybershopping, HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
YOU DO NOT BELONG IN THE BUSINESS!
You are absolutely right Jeffrey! The whole point of the experience is that the gentleman gets to CHOOSE what he wants, & the obvious result should be that he get EXACTLY that!! Misrepresentation is THEFT. Plain & simple.
Have a little pride in your business ladies!
Such dishonesty really only results in disappointment & completely defeats the purpose of the Hobby. I am of course talking above & beyond the normal cropping your face out of pics for privacy, blurring tattoos or other distinguishing marks, or things of that nature. This is why I advertise correctly, post current pictures, & plaster BBW on everything... It would be just as much of a disappointment for me if the gentleman showed up for our Date & didn't like what he saw... then again, I care about my business & reputation.
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Your honesty and candid thoughts are refreshing!
For me, honesty is always the best policy in business & much of life. I always treat people how I would like to be treated. We are all in this together!!
Unfortunately anyone with a vag, prepaid card, less than half a brain & a smart phone can pretend to be a legit provider...
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I agree with Jeffrey that there seems to be a "less than truthful" number of posts recently. Providers who post photos from 20 years, or 20 pounds, ago are not helping themselves or the hobbyist. Just be what you are. Many guys are looking for you just the way you are.
I agree with you 100% on the photos stuff. I partially agree with you on the GFE. A provider is GFE if she does DFK and allow most things including DATY. In my opinion the CBJ does not disqualify advertising GFE as long as the other menu items are available just my opinion.
I never pay attention to any sumative claims in advertising. By that I mean touting oneself as a conclusion that I come to. “Stunning beauty”, I'll look at your pictures and decide if you are beautiful; claim your GFE with out any supporting evidence, wasted space in an add. “Girl Next Door” reminds me of the girl who I lived next door to.......not something to brag about if you try and use it as a reason to call you.
“Upscale”, “classy” have the same impact as claiming you are a quality provider.....everything has quality, so claiming you are a quality provider is nothing more than stating you are alive.
“I love what I do.” Well, you may love what you do, but the question is “Will I Love what you do to ME?”
Look at it this way, “I have ESP so I can do to you what nobody else can do(cause I have Extra Sexual Power because i'm from Venus and can do things Earth girls can't!!)
But the BEST, absolute BEST is describing what one sees in a picture...blond hair, petite, sexy, etc, if I can see that in a picture that one has posted, why oh why waste advertising space telling me what I can easily see? Couse there is the BEST of the BEST of that train of thought...Amazin Red Head with pictures before one dyed their hair red!!
Deprived
Agree. And I'll add one. Including the word "bombshell" in an ad alerts me that all may not be as advertised.
5 Star and one my personal favorites "It's me or it's free"
I honestly wonder if anyone has been able to cash in on that promise? It's never worked for me. It usually just ends with her telling me what an asshole I am for leaving without even a paying a cancellation fee 
I hate this one. Curvy to me, means a slim, athletic woman with a great figure and maybe with larger than normal breasts. Unfortunately, this description on ads for providers and dating sites is used by women to describe a small BBW.
“Upscale”, “classy” have the same impact as claiming you are a quality provider.....everything has quality, so claiming you are a quality provider is nothing more than stating you are alive.
“I love what I do.” Well, you may love what you do, but the question is “Will I Love what you do to ME?”
Look at it this way, “I have ESP so I can do to you what nobody else can do(cause I have Extra Sexual Power because i'm from Venus and can do things Earth girls can't!!)
But the BEST, absolute BEST is describing what one sees in a picture...blond hair, petite, sexy, etc, if I can see that in a picture that one has posted, why oh why waste advertising space telling me what I can easily see? Couse there is the BEST of the BEST of that train of thought...Amazin Red Head with pictures before one dyed their hair red!!
Deprived
So every hobbyist is different.
I know for me personally a lady that is well built and mature is very hot too!
The best thing in the world for me is having a thick body to hold onto while having sex.
This does not mean too fat or skinny either.
Also when a providers says she does GFE but only CBJ.
Well I don't even waste my time with that type of provider
I have only been in this hobby since 2012 so I don't know what it has been like over the years. My question to the participants with more experience is false advertising a recent trend?
which is a reason to stick with verified providers. I have never had any problems.. Although I am not a skinny mini.. I am not a bbw, I am just what someone who takes the time to find ME... wants.
Agreed, perfectly stated!
Kelly XO
... to help guys weed out who was legit, who were the scammers and who delivered as advertised.
I would say "NO" - in general -- it just SEEMS like more false advertising, because there is more advertising overall.
Volume and access to hobby resources for advertising, research, etc. is much greater, so more scammers will come with territory -- like any industry that grows, especially tied to an explosion in ubiquitous technology.
I'm a marketing / advertising executive, and IMHO - just the same-old story...
"beware of advertising" and "things you read on the internet might not be true" (including reviews)
I understand what ya'll are saying and I agree. Though over the years I have struggled with my new body.
{Like : I no longer skinny dip but I chunkydunk!!}So i left up old photos just recently did I put up a few new pics. As it's not been easy to adapt to the new me. However I do pride myself on my delivery!! I love it all, I do it all and it shows! I'm comfortable with my body now and Ill be doin this till I can't do it no more. Because I love you guys!!!!
{Like : I no longer skinny dip but I chunkydunk!!}So i left up old photos just recently did I put up a few new pics. As it's not been easy to adapt to the new me. However I do pride myself on my delivery!! I love it all, I do it all and it shows! I'm comfortable with my body now and Ill be doin this till I can't do it no more. Because I love you guys!!!!
and I love what you do also.