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But PLEASE, do continue to make a complete ASS of yourself

XoXo
Caramel
 

Its a better viewpoint than balljointnuts constructive criticism of the subject...

I just wanted to throw this out there:

EVERYONE is aware of the NEGATIVE stigmas/health concerns for people who are overweight.  So pointing out the obvious is kind of redundant.  Defeats the actual purpose of the article.  It is not a "Fat is Good" article.  It's written by a body image professional & was meant to give a different look at body issues from a more positive light.

 The point of the article is that in order to make changes to be healthy, you HAVE to love yourself.  Its about the MENTAL aspect of being overweight.  The mental anguish inflicted on the overweight population is incredible.  If you think about it any changes we make to our lifestyles, is 90% mental & 10% physical (not actual statistics just meant to show the relationship between the two).  If you are stuck in a pattern of self loathing, which most overweight people are, learning to love who you are at your wost is the first step in that direction.  Who's going to want to do that though, with most of society saying you are disgusting?!?

Let me guess, you've never had this problem.  Wanting to not be fat but hating yourself so much you can't change.

Well I can't tell you either because I have NEVER felt this way & I have been 5'7 & a size 12+ my ENTIRE life.  I have always been on the taller/heavier side of average girls, even though I have spent most of my life playing organized sports & being somewhat healthy.  Guess what.  IM STILL A BIG GIRL.  The difference between me & most "fat girls" is I have ALWAYS owned my body.  I have always felt beautiful & sexy.  I never let it be an option for someone to tell me otherwise.  I was active & healthy, & refused to let anyone instill that kind of self loathing inside of me.  I am now several children heavier & a size 18/20, guess what, I STILL love my body!!  I have NEVER had a problem "finding" a man or even finding a HOT man.  You are wrong about that one.  I have fucked, dated, & loved some unbelievably gorgeous gentlemen in my personal life...  I am talking male model beautiful.

I know it may be hard for some to fathom, but the demand for big beautiful women is there... personally & professionally.  You call them chubby chasers, I call them lovers & friends

XoXo
Caramel

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You end your post with "unless you have serious medical problems" and yet your whole post is full of fat shaming, regardless of whether there is a medical problem or not....there are lots of medical problems that can cause people to be overweight, includig stress (stress causes your body to go into protective mode, which means your body stores everything it can get to help protect you from the stress). Your demeaning comments about people who are overweight are the reason articles like the one Caramel get written...you have no clue who you might be affecting with your comments, and you are positive that all fat people can fix themselves, regardless of whatever may be the problem.  

Become an adult, and get to know people as people before passing judgment on them.

I do not believe there are any medical conditions that cause dick-headedness, so...

K

BUT I will be laughing at this one all the way to the bank to deposit the money my "large" ass made

I know my worth as a woman in the hobby & the value of the contributions I make to this "fuck" board, even if you don't...  that is all that matters.

Your fine young skinny girls can have you.  I'm good with that.  

BTW that is at least twice now, at least that I have read, where you (for some reason) have to claim that there are ALL of these mystery women who just LOVE you.  I wonder where these admirers are when you show your ass & are called on your shit.   Bueller?  Bueller?  Bueller?

XoXo
Caramel
 

yup u are.