Ok, I have to weigh in on this one, because last weekend was a little unbeleivable. I contacted my provider who is also my ATF, and told her I would like to see her, I also told her rather than meeting me at my place or hers, we should meet at one of the nicer hotels in the area. She said fine I got us a very nice room and did a few things (Candles, music, chilled champagne etc). When she arrived I told her that we were going to do role-reversal, I became the Provider and she became the client and could do anything she wanted.
I won't get into all of the lurid details suffice to say we were together for two hours, and she have quite a few O's. Was I that great I didn't think so, I just listen to her body and went with the flow, most of the time she was doing all of the work and that's the way she wanted it. If you just listen to their bodies most women will O repeatedly using you as their instrument, and that's definately a good thing.
By the way her fee is always paid in advance via EFT, but I still gave her a nice tip. Well, I did receive an e-mail from her, which was very complimentary (to say the least). I didn't do this for any other reason than to thank her for being her all of these years. But I'm certainly looking forward to seeing her agin, and watching her having those mutiple "O"s.
Sometimes you just have to let nature take it's course.
Some of us take great pleasure in giving our providers pleasure. Need some advice from the girls. Do you have orgasms often and what should we be doing to make you feel safe and relaxed? What should we be doing to give you multiple orgasms? Is morning better, evening etc.?
Thanks for the tips.
I always start by giving my provider a massage instead of her doing me ... I then slowly move down her body with a very lite touch ... soft deep kisses followed by small circling strokes over each nipple until they become hard and erect ... then slowly travel down kissing licking her tummy until you finally arrive .... slowly start at the knee and inch your way in ... tease her "Y" hear that first moan ... inch your way back down the other knee then back in again ... once your finally at the "Y" take it nice and slow ... savor .... taste .... explore ... feel her movements and listen to the sounds she makes she'll tell you how your doing ... stay until she comes, let her catch her breath ... then slowly start again use a different stroking method this time and expand the area until she comes again ... that has always set an excellent mood for a great session for me ... enjoy
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spinner, that would certainly set an excellent mood!!
Taking the time to tease till the lady wants to drag your tongue to the spot is a great approach 
Ok, I have to weigh in on this one, because last weekend was a little unbeleivable. I contacted my provider who is also my ATF, and told her I would like to see her, I also told her rather than meeting me at my place or hers, we should meet at one of the nicer hotels in the area. She said fine I got us a very nice room and did a few things (Candles, music, chilled champagne etc). When she arrived I told her that we were going to do role-reversal, I became the Provider and she became the client and could do anything she wanted.
I won't get into all of the lurid details suffice to say we were together for two hours, and she have quite a few O's. Was I that great I didn't think so, I just listen to her body and went with the flow, most of the time she was doing all of the work and that's the way she wanted it. If you just listen to their bodies most women will O repeatedly using you as their instrument, and that's definately a good thing.
By the way her fee is always paid in advance via EFT, but I still gave her a nice tip. Well, I did receive an e-mail from her, which was very complimentary (to say the least). I didn't do this for any other reason than to thank her for being her all of these years. But I'm certainly looking forward to seeing her agin, and watching her having those mutiple "O"s.
Sometimes you just have to let nature take it's course.
Say what you want about a 'business' sex is a very personal thing between two people. There is a bond of some type between a man and woman as they get into the session.
I like to be very gentle. I enjoy the 'touch' of a woman's skin. It is usually very soft and smooth, not like a man's skin. It is really funny to watch a woman's face as I draw lines with just the very edge of one finger. Just very gentle...taking my time, touch her ever so soft, and gentle...as if a man can be 'soft and gentle'. I am a working man...so my hands are ruff and hard from many years of abuse...but if I try real hard...I can still be gentle. I would think that these woman get more then enough of being treated (or mistreated) hard and fast. I enjoy talking to her softly..asking her what she enjoyes, and then doing it.
I have learned to slow down...enjoy the time, and be thankful for the gifts that a woman brings to a man in sex. If she wannts to be hard, and fast, she will tell you. But if you hold back...and be very gentle...I have found that you simply drive her mad with passion. I like to see the look on her face as I leave and say "thank you" as I go. I usually give her a flower...I love to see that smile on her face...I guess she usually does not hear a "thank you" very often. A smile like that is far and few between for me....but it is nice to see.
I wish I could enjoy more time like this, but being a working man....and a man that works all the time....being with any woman (provider or not) from conversation to sex....is something that I value, and enjoy.
It is sad that some men do not know what they have...until they have lost it (ie., women). I had to learn my lesson the hard way....but it was a lesson learned.
Be safe and have fun....
ozzy
just slap some peanut butter on her left labia and some jelly on the right one and have at her my friend. Oh, and don't forget to have a JD over rocks in hand! She'll love ya for it..............
has been when I'm making it all about her while she's making it all about me. It's an unbeatable combination.