More trust and listening is called for.
Many men (and I plead guilty.), have a thing about how they have to get their partner off.
While I'm sure gals love their Os, I think it gives them greater pleasure (or makes them more confident, perhaps) to see that we get off.
For the ladies that enjoy receiving oral, if you have an orgasm, do you mind if your partner continues or if you are now sensitive do you mind if your partner still wants to engage in the activity after you have become less sensative???
I ask as one lady I've seen a couple of times has told me she does not mind it the first time but it's so intense it's not her favorite activity, unfortunately it is one of mine especially as I deal with a P.E. problem.
I felt bad when she explained the situation as I would hope the lady at least enjoyed some of the session. She has never turned me down but now that I know she does not really enjoy what I am enjoying it's lik, I appreciate her willingness but feel bad while doing it. Ugggggggggg LOL
I have not seen her since but only due a tight budget and wanting a more receptive provider, I am grateful to her and always will be as she was my first provider.
Thanks in advance for your feedback,
Bordello69
..before I can be touched again. And if time permits, and my partner wants to go back down, I don't mind but nothing will happen. What annoys the heck out of me is when I say it won't happen again and the guy still goes at it to either prove me wrong or be the one that makes me go twice. I know my body better than he does so please listen and leave well enough alone.
More trust and listening is called for.
Many men (and I plead guilty.), have a thing about how they have to get their partner off.
While I'm sure gals love their Os, I think it gives them greater pleasure (or makes them more confident, perhaps) to see that we get off.
because it's more enjoyable for me during intercourse when my partner is well "lubed". Although it would be nice if I could get my partner off, it's not that important for me in the context of our hobby.
Thanks, I understand and that is why the question, we are all different, some women can
est and they are all for it again and then there are the ones who bodies do not do well with it.
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I was not complaining but trying to find out what is more of preference from provider to provider in general. I am so sensitive I laugh my butt off if she even moves, after a short time 10 to 15 min. I'm fine. Most providers get a kick out of hot sensitive I am after orgasm. Guess that is why the P.E. problem.
Thank you for your input,
Bordello
every woman alive loves their pussy licked..intensity has different levels..you have to know when to back off and when to kick it up a notch..she will let you know in no uncertain terms..
but each one is different on different days. Listen to her, as she will generally guide you. One of the reasons I prefer regulars is that we get to know each others triggers and pain points.
I agree and it was only that I don't want any lady not at least enjoying herself. She does not have to have an O, nice if she does but she is working so depending on many things she may or may not. I just don't want to be selfish and doing something she is not letting me know she would prefer???
I'm a very simple man and direct works best, just say in nicely and I will do my best to go with her program if it is somewhat near mine. I would prefer just a few partners that I can enjoy their company as well as the activities. Being older and with prostate cancer I'm just after being nice with a woman I can enjoy. I may have many years and then not, don't care except for anytime spent with company. I would never knowingly want a lady doing something she dislikes just because of the situation. Just talk to me ladies, I think most of us mature men are fairly easy to get along with.
Regards,
Bordello
LOL
See, each provider is different some are all for it even if a rest is needed and they welcome it while others are too sensitive. That's fine but it helps knowing it up front. Everyone should be happy or at leat close to it.
Thank you for your point of view,
Bordello
Stay down there all day..I will do the same!!
Darn, had a lot to say but lost it with a quick double click. Nice to see another lady open to it.
I just wished she had said something first as I still feel bad that she didn't care for the second round but never said a word. I would not have asked her to continue had she said something.
Thanks for your input,
Bordello
(and giving oral). My first orgasm is usually very intense so do need a little time to get over the sensitivity after an orgasm, but am happy to get as much as the gent wants to give! I do feel guilty though, being the one being pleasured instead of the one doing the pleasuring. But, I'm no fool- I'm not going to turn down being spoiled in that way! 
Hugs,
Bobbi
Thanks Bobbi,
If the gent is enjoying what he is doing there is no reason in the world that if you a enjoying the activity you should feel guilty. Be happy that at least for the moment you're getting paid not only for giving pleasure but receiving it at the same time. Sounds like a win win to me.
Regards,
Bordello
And after an orgasm I need a few minutes to recover...then if you want to continue I say go for it ..Give me all you've got!
xoxo
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time for! I need no recovery time at all, and am very blessed with a gift. I lost count with my last engagement- he was amazing. I have a friend back in CA who would book me for 4 hours, and just stay down there for 3 of those. Seriously. The only problem is a serious case of bed-head from all the writhing (I have toyed with the idea of bringing along a satin pillowcase). 
The best darn job ever!
yes, i'm sensitive after an explosion, but i've learned that if my partner continues to pleasure me - a little gently at first - i'll just keep going and going! it's really the most amazing thing! there have been sessions where i've lost count at ten or so; by then i'm not much more than a panting puddle of pure bliss...and then, wait a minute...could it be? omg, ANOTHER ONE grips me and lifts me higher than the last! it is indeed a thrill, like the best roller coaster EVER. when i'm with a gent who really enjoys pleasing, i've learned to just lay back and enjoy in the most hedonistic way possible...but it's best for all concerned if the neighbors aren't home, because i'm also a very appreciative lady, and i've been known to scream pretty loudly while whipping around the curves on that roller coaster!
what a fantastic ride.
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what a fantastic ride.
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My ATF... told me she "never Os with clients" but that she enjoys oral. I just enjoy pleasuring my partner... one day I just got lost in pleasing her. She started a long rolling O... I glanced up & she was pinching playing with her nipples... I just followed her lead until she was spent... She turned the tables on me but she was definately in recovery mode.
That said, it doesn't happen every time... some times she prefers to focus on me. I'm agreeable to that but still like to give as good as I get.
Now the current SO... when we still were active... she enjoyed an oral warmup but could shift to intercourse for a (usually) mutual O it she tried.
I must say I am more sensitive right after but I love the feeling and some have even given me another orgasm after I have settled down so lick on! Hope you find what you are looking for!! Kalinasandiego
I get very super sensitive..... but VERY talented lickers know how to back off enough but not stop so they can keep going with me... they are rare, but I ADORE those men!
I still remember the very first time I got oral, I was 21 and he did it for 35 min straight and I counted, I came 12 times... that's when I was hooked lol
it feels INCREDIBLE if right after I cum he covers up and starts fucking me... the sex feels so good right after
I love oral and when I cum I keep cumming.....doesnt bother me either way.
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