yeah I could of..but I dont feel I should have..it may seem bitchy..but clients that I dont already know where not on my mind..they miss apts..without ever calling me.. one recently booked 2 apt 4 hours each..then flaked..so I feel my reputation stands for itself..if I seem that bad..then dont book with me...luckily for me there are so many nice people that took the time to call me and some I dont even know... even emailed to say how they feel for me..some of the letters would bring tears to your eyes..so nice... so heartfelt... so I said sorry for missing an apt..thats all I can do..one who was nice about it..I offered a 1/2 rate or multiple hours for less... the one who was rude..fuck him I got to see how he really is.. and its in my best interest not to meet...there are a millions reason I could have gave..I thought posting about it..the day before an apt..would be enough to put it out there what really occured.. I cant ever please everyone.. ..should have..could have..would have... everyone says what I should have done..except they were not siting in an ER having to try and explain how your injury occured.. wondering if its time to work a 9-5 instead... contamplating letting your security go back up to his room..opening a whole new can of worms I was not about open..every action has consiquiences..I am sorry if I offended you..sorry if I wrecked your night..would you like a LB of flesh to go with that.....
I felt I had to repost about this because quite a few.. well one very vocal person felt very slighted about me missing an apt..as I really try never to do this..I had posted about a very bad client..I usually would say.. too bad but I dont want others to think I would do this as a rule..I thought I had emailed everyone..and I did recieve a few call I did not answer...I dont think I should have to come out an explain this in depth so I will just say I missed a few apts..due to a client physically injuring me..pretty badly..I needed a stich..just one..but it was in an area you do not want to injure..he basically forced greek on me after I said I could not accomadate his size..so I did not care about apts after this ..I honestly thought I would never see anyone again..I was that disgusted..but..you give yourself alittle time and you are able to look past it..so I understand I dissapointed a few individuals..but shit happens I do not blow off clients ..or elase I would not have the great reputation I have..so I apoligize that you feel I "blew you off without a call" I did not feel like calling anyone and explaining what occured..I am over it (kinda) now..but I dont just miss apts..and i resent the fact you felt the need to not ask me why ..just assume I did not care...
Wow! I hope your okay = ( jees.. that's kinda scary. If I didn't know any better id consider that rape almost since u said no.. anyway glad ur doing better! I think what you did was understandable!
It is, no if and or buts. No means no. I'm so sorry for what happened to you Megan. My thoughts go out to you. Make sure you let the other ladies know who did this to you.
It is rape because she said NO. This is exactly the situation in the Kobe Bryant case and the evidence will show the same kind of physical injury. I'm sorry for you and agree that you need to let the other ladies know about this guy.
Megan, I am so sorry this happened to you, It made my stomach turn to read this, I wish I could help you in some way, but I don;t know how, except to say that this asshole is only one person and all have seen you or want to see you will not treat you like this man (and I use that term lose), Once again I'm sorry
B-Pop
PS If the guy that did this is reading this, you need a good ass whuppin boy and your lucky I don;t know who you are or my fist would be paying your face a visit tonight, You sorry little bitch
Sorry for your assault Megan. Your rage is very justified. However I can see it from the guys side as well. Being stood up is irritating as hell. Without knowing the reason they were also justifiably upset.
If you decide to keep going with the busniess, your reputation will clear up after a short time. Glad to hear that you survived. Please take care of yourself.
i think you should make public the name, phone number and any other info you have on this client and then let us take care of our own...it's not right for this asshole to have no recriminations for his behavior....not to mention it gives the rest of us gentlemen a bad name as well...and leaves a bad taste in ladies' mouths for the guys in general...personally, i think the asshole should suffer and i'd like to be the one to dish it out. how about it megan?...and if you're not comfortable posting the info publicly, i'd be happy to receive a private mail. i'm so, so, so sorry for what happened to you....there is absolutely no excuse for his behavior....and don't be hard on yourself or expect that you should or will be over something so horrid so quickly....stuff like that leaves marks for a long time....so go easy and be patient with yourself, give yourself time and don't be ashamed if you aren't your old self right away...good luck and once again...i am so, so sorry....my heart and my sincerest wishes go out to you.
Thanks..alot of people already knew this happened..but when I read a post about me..missing an apt I felt i had to go into detail why I missed a few apts..I just mentally could not deal with it..I am kinda past it luckily there are alot of nice people out there,..its my first bad expierence..hopefully my last...he had refernces..thats what I dont get..he suddenly turned weird..on me?anyways thanks I took a few days to get past it.. Thanks
Damm &^$#-ing morons!!!! That's gotta be a really really tough spot to be in...guess you can't even file any charges considering the "activity", but isn't the attending physician obligated by law to report such incidents? I dunno...mebbe I've seen too many Law and Order's.
Anyway, glad to hear you're recovering Megan and hopefully "revn" now has some closure over the circumstances.
Megan
I'm very sorry that this happened and I agree with all the post so far!!! This should never happen!!! No means NO!!! But I also feel the other guy deserves a cancellation call. So here's my .02 and this is not going to be a popular remark based on what I have seen so far!!! But it still needs to be said and I don’t want this to show that I don’t care about how woman are treated by men. But Megan you still could have made a phone call to cancel!!!! You could have said that you were sick and couldn’t make the appointment. Plan and simple – nothing else had to be said.
This is Revn's report on how things went with you -
“I thought they would appreciate being treated with consideration, respect, and dignity. I talked to the one that stood me up just a few hours before our first appointment and she assured me that we were on and that she would call me 30 minutes before our meeting time. That call never came so I waited a while and called her only to get her voice mail and no courtesy of a return call.”
Megan you seem like a lady that has a lot of class and what happened to you should have never happened to anyone and I also agree with one of the other posts that this guy needs his ass kicked!!! But I’m sorry you could have made a simple call to cancel!!!! That would have been the right thing to do!!! No one would have blamed you for canceling and the poor guy could have gone on his own and not just sit there waiting for you!!!! He didn't do anything wrong!!!
Just my .02 worth!!!!!
As far as Megan making a call, I think she was and is more than justified about not calling. I think given the cicumstances, that we shoudl all be thankful that she is still willing to meet with us partakers. If I was in her shoes, I would seriously think about looking at new alternatives. I too, had a conflict meeting with Megan. Was I dissapointed, yes. Do I understand, yes. I do feel as though the other ladies need to be made aware of this guy. I also belive that and eye-for-an-eye. How do you think this guy would like if you put something that size in him????? I'm willing to help in any way I can.
Have to agree with vmtgbroker. If you weren't unconcious, you could have made several phone calls while being stitched, yes?
yeah I could of..but I dont feel I should have..it may seem bitchy..but clients that I dont already know where not on my mind..they miss apts..without ever calling me.. one recently booked 2 apt 4 hours each..then flaked..so I feel my reputation stands for itself..if I seem that bad..then dont book with me...luckily for me there are so many nice people that took the time to call me and some I dont even know... even emailed to say how they feel for me..some of the letters would bring tears to your eyes..so nice... so heartfelt... so I said sorry for missing an apt..thats all I can do..one who was nice about it..I offered a 1/2 rate or multiple hours for less... the one who was rude..fuck him I got to see how he really is.. and its in my best interest not to meet...there are a millions reason I could have gave..I thought posting about it..the day before an apt..would be enough to put it out there what really occured.. I cant ever please everyone.. ..should have..could have..would have... everyone says what I should have done..except they were not siting in an ER having to try and explain how your injury occured.. wondering if its time to work a 9-5 instead... contamplating letting your security go back up to his room..opening a whole new can of worms I was not about open..every action has consiquiences..I am sorry if I offended you..sorry if I wrecked your night..would you like a LB of flesh to go with that.....
I continue to be amazed by the insensitivity of some of the "hobbiests" on this board! First of all I could never do what these girls do, putting themselves in harm's way daily to earn a living..and I'm quite sure that not all their customers look like Richard Gere (re: the film Pretty Woman).I'm sure some of them are no picnic to be with.
You really expect her to be making phone calls while she's getting stitched up after being sodomized? You might have a different view if that was you laying on your stomach in the E.R.
Try having some back up phone numbers with you when you come to Vegas...there are literally hundreds of providers, and I'm sure you could have found one to take care of you. Most of the hotels have pc's with internet access in their lobbys...log on to TER and find an alternate. If nothing else, there is always the brothels. I know it's disappointing to be stood up, I had a miscommunication with a provider on my last trip out, but she set me up with a girlfriend...it was not the same, but the end result was satisfactory.
These girls are human beings, with personal lives and families and problems that we cannot even begin to comprehend. Put yourself in their place before you critisize.
Just my two cents...
Megan we have never met (maybe one day) but that does not mean that I do not feel great sadness and pain for you that someone would hurt you the way he did.
I hope that you recover fully and continue to give the benefit of your existence to the rest of us "good guys"
MI@M
Hi Megan,
We have never met. I have read all these posts and several of your reviews as well as checking out your site.
The best I can say is that I am sick to my stomach for what happened to you. From what I gather, you are a real sweet woman who does not deserve any of the grief that has happened to you.
I also think it is great that you and a few other providers participate in these LV boards. I am from the NYC area and very few (other than Alexia sometimes) providers in my area participate. Mostly they just advertise themselves.
I hate it that a lousy man like the one you saw can ruin it for the rest of us nice guys out there.
If I lived in Vegas and knew where you lived, I would send you a card or flowers. From here, the best I can do is just say do the best to keep your spirits up and don't let some of these insensitive guys get you down.
MW11