Damnit, don't be so harsh on yourself! You, in fact, have gone from hot 20's to mature 30's with awesome grace and absolute beauty! Of course, you're a true gem, one-of-a-kind, but to refer to yourself as an old bitch, well, that's simply not a fair description of yourself!
I read these reviews where the guys call some provider with fake pics on BP, and when they show up to the place they find out that it's not the girl in the pics.
However, they still use the service. Maybe the girls is cute, maybe not even close. Still, I personally wouldn't promote anyone using fake pics. They already started their business with my by lying. I don't feel I should reward that.
I don't feel this is taking one for the team. Overall, it hurts the team.i realize fake pics will always be out there, but still this kind of situation seems silly to me. If they answer the door and it's obviously not the girl in the ads.. Turn around and call a reputable provider...
I totally agree with you! If everyone did this when they encountered a provider who is using fake pictures, then it would probably cut down on the number of occurrences. I usually try to do an image search. If it's obvious from the search that the pics are fake, then I move on to another ad.
Just as bad as fake pictures are pictures that are 5+ years old. You can kind of tell it's the same person but looks older and maybe 30 or 40 pounds heavier. If more people started walking away, the pictures would get a little more accurate.
Yeah- frustrating! Even using Eros sometimes you'll find pictures stolen from others. It would be nice to have someone like LamontCranston69 providing a public service announcement here like he does for Boston and Chicago. Maybe his program is available for sale.
Also with old pictures or even heavily touched up ones it feels deceiving. I guess it makes it such a great surprise when someone looks as good or better than pictures. Keep doing your homework and tell it like it is on reviews
Get little bee stings (botox etc.) around picture time. That stuff wears off gradually and maybe you are at the end of "gradually". Some of us are living and breathing human beings and don't stagnate and we are all changing just like you. A picture captures a moment. Moments are always changing . Hopefully our other assets override any temporary inaccuracies. I think most of us ladies are trying to keep up our appearances (almost painstakingly) so that we can compete in our marketplace.
Damnit, don't be so harsh on yourself! You, in fact, have gone from hot 20's to mature 30's with awesome grace and absolute beauty! Of course, you're a true gem, one-of-a-kind, but to refer to yourself as an old bitch, well, that's simply not a fair description of yourself!
There is nothing wrong with a little touch up or Botox before a shoot. I'm sure that in life outside of here many lady's do that to keep up that youthful appearance. There are some (a select few) that have gone crazy and the picture only vaguely resembles the person you are seeing. It is in those instances that you become disenchanted That definitely is not you
it's the personality which will get a return visit. With that said if I visit a forty year old provider I expect to see someone that looks forty not twenty. Just keep in mind Sedona there is always a market place for mature providers not everyone want to meet barely legal women. Especially you
I agree; it's not looks that will determine if you do a return visit. I saw a young woman in her mid 20's a few weeks ago. She looked a lot better in person than her pictures (which looked pretty good). However, she displayed no personality or emotion the entire visit. She just lay there kind of staring at the ceiling. Needless to say, I haven't been back to see her. It's a shame, because she was so good looking
AND of course humor. I'm okay with aging and I meet women my age that are ripe and perfect. I would not imagine them any other way! But just as many clients are doing the plastic surgery/ enhancements, so are some of us! Nothing wrong with it, t'is today's day and age!!! Nothing wrong with younger women unless they are not of legal age!!!
So if you see someone who used fake pics (ignoring for the moment IF you should stay or not) and you write a review in which you make it clear that the pics are either fake or old, I don't see how that is a promotion. It's just a report on the facts. So let's be clear about that, ok?
However, if do turn around and walk out ( i.e. No date), then you often cannot get a review accepted, as you have almost nothing to report. At least that has been my experience. I'd like to know if that has changed.
Thst said, I have gotten much better about turning around and walking out if I dont recognize the lady from the pics she posted. In fact, these days I will tell them thats what I will do if they have no reviews. (Even so, last month i showed up after saying that, and the girl looked nothing like her pics. What gives? Did she not believe me?...) We all know how it happens -- you invested an hour searching, calling, set an appointment, drove out, and then she doesn't match the pics -- but you got money and a hard on in your pants, and you're there... And she's there... So the path of least resistance seems appealing... But with very few exceptions, every time I stayed, I regretted it. So, these days, I do an about face instead.
Maybe posting on the discussion board would be a good way to get the word out. Like you say, it's hard to post a review if you haven't actually done a session with the provider.
I've turned around and walked out and submitted an excepted review.