When I was about 21 years old, I used to get very hot about one stripper who had a killer body. It got me hard everytime I saw this stripper. I always pass by that stripper's club as it was on the intersection on my way home. So, one night I decided to pay her ladies' drink and have her sit beside me in a private room upstairs. We actually clicked and started groping each other. After fantasizing about her killer body for weeks, I could not control myself and had to slip my hands and insert it in her pussy as I DFKed her. She got really wet. Dang! nobody was in that private room and I was slightly drunk. I pulled out willie, which was hard as stone, and with a little convincing she sat on my hard wille. Since she was hot and wet, I went inside her very easily as she sat on me and began to buck me up and down. It was the most exhilirating service I had. The fuck was free and I just paid for ladies drink and a beer. I don't think I will have a repeat experience like that. But who knows when manna from heaven will come down again. The visual titillation of the striptease act plus an impromptu unexpected fuck from a woman you fantasize is mind-blowing!
seeking some words of advice and information, let me lay it out for you all....
went to the local strip joint, had an amazing dance from a lady i had seen a while back, asked if i could get a private dance and she later slipped me her phone # and told me how much it was going to cost me, called her up and set up an appointment..i have been with one provider only and im wondering is there any difference in the procedures and services, do i have to look out for certain things that i wouldnt when with a provder, i know there are some VERY obvious answers to some of my questions. any suggestions and advice would be very appreciated.
thanks
I hate to make generalizations but strippers (except for the pornstar stippers) are generally angry man hating teases. The service tends to be way overpriced and under delivers. The pornstar strippers that I've been with have been some of the best kissers ever and are very sensual but don't get really nasty. In my opinion, there's nothing better than a pure escort who loves her work. I would add that $ doesn't always correlate to performance. The majority of my favorite experiences have been very reasonably priced. Having said that, I wouldn't trade my stripper gone escort experiences for anything. I have some beautiful memories.
-b
degraded as a stripper than she ever did as an escort. I think this is why they are so much more angry at men than escorts are.
apparantly not unique to NetM, but on the other hand, there are a few strippers who seem to really enjoy their work. One I knew just loved dancing, and she felt like it was the perfect combo job for making more money than she could ever make elswhere, fulfilling her need to dance, and getting exercise to stay in shape. Different strokes!
... I agree with the general premise that there's nothing a stripper is going to do better than the girls on TER, but this guy seems adventruous. It could be she's a casual provider and will be every bit as good. And strippers tend to be a bit better looking than escorts, on balance although that's not an absolute obviously. I'd give it a whirl but be VERY careful to think with my big head and not my little head where my wallet was concerned. Be clear on finances and if tips are expected for extra services. That's a bad sign, Greek lessons excluded. Come to think of it, it would be kind of a hoot to see my provider being oogled by a bunch of men.
Making luv to a stripper is like a box of chocolates...you never know what your gonna get...but be prepared to pay Godiva prices.
That being said, be prepared for anything but GFE... a price tag on every movement and she'll let you know the score as you go along...
"excuse me...price check on right nipple"
Later...
"I'm cuming"...
That will be $3,335.30!
Booiiinnnng!
I'm sure this is the extreme but beware and know what your getting into.That's why TER providers are the bomb!
Cheers!
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Good luck!
After the party is over and she just dances for you....
Call your local escorts! Don't let her tease you when we can please you!
~Shayla
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I cant remember which escort said this but her quote was, "strippers tease but escorts please" I think that about sums it up.
And yes, in my experience strippers usally have a very low opinion of the guys that come to see them. I have a lot of DJ friends in their biz and if you ever saw the whole stripper scene from their point of veiw you'd probably never want to step into another strip club again.
Bottom line when it comes to adult entertainment GFE's and PSE's rule!!!!!!!
I have a somewhat different view of all this based on my experience, which may be unique.
I started hobbying with a stripper. I got her phone number in the club, and I began seeing her at a motel. Eventually, I was seeing her at her house. Then I got to the point where I made her my mistress. Ultimately, I was supporting her.
In the meantime, I fell in love with her. She is gorgeous, with a great body. I am old and, unfortunately, fat. I have always been awkward with women. She is the love of my life.
We have been together for almost 9 years. We have ups and downs, especially because of our personal relationship. but there is nothing I can do about that because I have been married for 40 years.
I don't suggest that every one of you will find a great girl at a strip club. I did. In some ways I regret that I never have left my wife. In other ways, I regret that I ever fell in love with her. But that's life.
My experience with escorts is limited -- I wouldn't begin to claim I know even a fraction of what most of the guys here do -- but I do know a lot about strippers.
Anyway, I don't think you can generalize about strippers on a lot of things -- for example, they are not all man-hating bitches -- but one thing is absolutely true, and you should never forget this if you decide to move your hobbying in that direction: they all -- there are no exceptions -- think they are on a whole nother level than hookers and escorts, and they will try to charge you accordingly. Not only that, they will prolly try to stop short of sex. All of this is because they are geared up to see men as sources of money, and that's about it. It's not so much that they hate men: it's that they think they can only get man on the basest level. This means they will try to get as much money from you while delivering the least service. That's the way they think, and if you want anything from them, you'd better keep that in mind.
Bottom line is, you're better off leaving your hobbying with TER providers, and just enjoy the strippers in the strip clubs.
When I was about 21 years old, I used to get very hot about one stripper who had a killer body. It got me hard everytime I saw this stripper. I always pass by that stripper's club as it was on the intersection on my way home. So, one night I decided to pay her ladies' drink and have her sit beside me in a private room upstairs. We actually clicked and started groping each other. After fantasizing about her killer body for weeks, I could not control myself and had to slip my hands and insert it in her pussy as I DFKed her. She got really wet. Dang! nobody was in that private room and I was slightly drunk. I pulled out willie, which was hard as stone, and with a little convincing she sat on my hard wille. Since she was hot and wet, I went inside her very easily as she sat on me and began to buck me up and down. It was the most exhilirating service I had. The fuck was free and I just paid for ladies drink and a beer. I don't think I will have a repeat experience like that. But who knows when manna from heaven will come down again. The visual titillation of the striptease act plus an impromptu unexpected fuck from a woman you fantasize is mind-blowing!
I deeply miss a stripper who used to take me into the VIP and for the price of a couple of dances (however long we went at it that night) would just fuck me silly. And this was a "nice" club. One night the no-neck bouncer strode in, glared, and advised me to keep my hands to my side. I didn't have the heart to tell him that dick was up inside the sweet young thing whose virtue he was defending.
I could never get her to meet me elsewhere (BF perhaps?) but for as long as she worked there I kept careful track of her schedule.
And then one day she was just gone.
I have no particular explanation for why I was chosen.
And watching her dance, before and after, was exceedingly hot...
I prefer escorting over dancing because you don't have to deal with the drama and the jealousy of other girls and the men you meet aren't in groups oogleing you. It is just one, almost always polite and respectful hobbyist! I am a happier person as a provider then I ever was as a dancer. When I am happier, my dating companions are much happier, right?
and also watch HBO's G-String Divas. If the interviews in the Times article about Las Vegas strippers and the HBO show are anywhere near a representative sample, it will only confirm the impression abroad in the land that strippers are extraordinarily mercenary, contemptuous of men and generally uninterested in anything other than greenbacks. Having said that, perhaps you are the one in a million who has made a connection with a stripper who has the heart and soul of a provider. If so, make sure to give us a juicy field report.
I always wonder why shouldn't they be contemptuous of men.
Paying money to watch somebody dance nude seems really lame to me, and I'm a guy! The way guys get entranced by a dancers pussy or tits is a little pathetic. Its as if they have never seen either before!
I know it bores people but I don't get it and I see why a lady would think less of guys who they dance for.
This is a much better game!
The drinks suck- the food sucks. What is the draw?
Of course my SO is a very fit woman who likes to be physical with me, so I might be spoiled at home.
full course meal laid out before you and not being allowed to eat.