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Of course you don't get it ! You are only 21 years old ! You have A LOT to learn about life !!
Later when I have more time I will come back to make another post to explain you things so you will grow up and understand 
Oh and by the way these guys are not paying $400 for a covered BJ from a middle aged women ...... it isn't about a BJ it is much more then that .......but of course you still have milk on your lips , so what do you know .
Later dude !
I am not sure where you read that guys have been in the hobby from the age of 16 . Maybe those are guys from many many years back .
Now a days a 16 year old could not hire a lady .
The ones that say they have been doing it from the age of 16 are guys from the older days .....where girls didn't just have sex because you are good looking . They were saving it for marriage .....so if a guy wanted sex he had no choice ,he had to pay for it or do it on his own
The ones that chose to probably do it for their 18th birthday ( or any other age ) is because they are maybe virgins . Imagine picking up a "freebie" girl who has experience and you have none.
Oops that can be a little embarrassing . So they chose to "hire a pro" get some experience and before they know it they are into this hobby !!
Then they get their "freebie" but you know what ???That "freebie" may look hotter then the escort , she may be younger then an escort .......but damm does that escort sure know how to please a man !!! and why is that "freebie always drunk ??
I am going back to the hobby !!
So see kiddo many reasons to be in the hobby even if you are a HOT, Good looking , pretty face , pretty boy .......but you know what ?? beauty comes from WITHIN !!!
Your spice lesson for the day CindySpice
-- Modified on 11/24/2003 11:53:51 AM
I agree totally with BH,it's a sad fact that EVERYONE is getting older,whether they like it or not.If you're a good-looking 21 year old man,you're gonna have no trouble getting laid by ,say,18-25 year old girls.You become middle-aged or older,that isn't going to happen.A woman 30-35 may be middle-aged to a real young guy,but it's just right for me.Also,with a provider,there is the matter of convienence,and a lack of real emotional involvement.This is important if (A)you don't want to take days or weeks to get to know someone first,or, (B)you've been thru the emotional pain of breakups,a divorce,and would rather not get "involved". I think I would echo BH and say "Enjoy it while you can",since you're a real young guy,you may not need this service. No offense,but your spelling and grammar need a lot of work.
-- Modified on 11/23/2003 8:11:44 PM
Sorry it took me a bit but I was on an extended appointment where I got $2500 from a hot young 25 year old guy .
So why does he need to pay ??
Well first off he can AFFORD to pay such a price .
Yes he is single , so he could go to a bar and try to pick up some "freebie" But he is shy , even though he is very good looking .
and even if he did talk to a girl no one is to promise he will "score" for sure ........baby I am a FOR SURE thing .
Plus even if he did "score" and pick someone up to go back home with him , she doesn't know half of the stuff I know to do in the bedroom .
She will not take the time to pamper him from head to toe .
But darling you are a 21 year old KID , you don't understand the meaning of being pampered .....for you sex is probably suck , and fuck .
The freebie that you took home that you met in the bar will not fulfill your every fantasy .
She will not put on her sexy lingerer , high heel shoes , stockings and garter belt for you and seduce you slowly , while stripping off piece by piece ..............but you think, what the hell do I need that for ???.........well like I said you are just a kid , you have not yet grown to understand the pleasures of sex .
Your just happy to "get laid" !!
Hiring a professional isn't just about "getting laid".
MEN have many reasons why they do this . and no it doesn't mean they are only fat, ugly and old .
and old doesn't mean gross ( think Michael Douglas , Harrison Ford )
Infact most of my clients look very good . They range from the ages of 21- 65 .
Some are very famous people .................so don't you think they could get any one they wanted ?? But this is less complicated . when it is over , it is OVER !! I don't call them the next day ....... they call me
Some just want "no strings attached " and don't tell me you haven't picked up girls that later was a problem to get rid of .
and you had to hope to god you didn't bump into again at the bar/club
Some may be just Average Joe's , but they are the nicest sweatiest gentlemen I have ever met !!
I will take a man like that anyday over any model type who is cocky and arrogant because he thinks he is all that ..................news flash darling looks only go so far .
Now of course there are the married guys , who need discretion .....they can't just go to a bar to try to pick someone up they are MARRIED !!
Do you understand what that means ??
Famous people need discretion , they are famous !
and yes probably some don't want to deal with rejection so they hire someone , nothing wrong with that .
but it isn't exactly about dealing with rejection . A guy goes out to a bar to pick up someone for free for the night . He is VERY good looking .........still that does not guarantee the guy he will bring home someone that night .
When you hire a lady you know for sure what you are getting ( of course that applies only if you did your research and for sure hired a reliable top escort )
Many times I spend an evening with a guy who is in town with 2 or 3 other friends . While we are having fun doing a FOR SURE thing his friends are out on the prowl ,looking for their freebie chicks hey they are great looking they don't need to pay ........all 3 return later that night drunk and horny HA and they laughed at their friend who hired an escort ......well now who has the last laugh LOL LOL LOL
So you read about a guy who paid $2500 and didn't even get anything.......yes that can happen , that is called getting scammed . Just like in any business or any other type of transactions, people get scammed everyday . It is part of life because there are people out there who are not honest people . But we learn from stuff like that , and get street smart for the next time .
It could even happen to you . You bring some freebie back to your place and it is just a one night stand . You know nothing about her , you don't know where she is from .......you plan to never see this person again , you just wanted to get your rocks off for the night and you found a chick who was willing to go back to your place because you are such a HOT guy with a PRETTY face .....wow don't you just have so much to offer
Anyways back at your place well you don't really have much , nothing really expensive to steal , but hey whatever she can get she'll take ........... oh she found $50 , yeah that doesn't sound like much but for you that was food money for the week .
Point is how do you know that someone you bring back to your place won't steal from you ??? You don't know , you just in nature trust that it won't happen . And if it did happen , will that stop you from bringing home girls ?? NO , but next time you will be more careful .
Just as the client who paid that $2500 trusted that girl , unfortunately he got ripped off . Ok next time he will be more careful . Maybe do more research , maybe only pay at the end .
Many who can get it for free pay simply for the reason of no complications , no strings attached !!
I don't call you .......... if you don't call me .
You still may be to young to understand stuff like this , maybe because it didn't happen to you............ YET .......but I assure you it will someday .
and a few years from now or 10 years from now you will look back and remember what I told you and you will say ......WOW Cindy was right ! How did she know all this . Well it is called going through life .Having life experiences . Something I have already done . You haven't so it is hard for you to understand . Well it isn't your fault you are just a KID , you haven't had the chance for many life experiences . Maybe this is your first
I am not offended about what you are saying ................... it is HOW you say it !
But maybe because you are still a kid , you just don't know how to express yourself .
Hope you have learned something today .
BTW excuse my grammar and spelling for I have only been speaking English for 8 years ..........what is your reason ?
.."English"?? I find French, Greek, Russian, etc. defined in the acronym list..but I can't seem to figure out what this "English" routine is all about! My only guess is that it may have something to do with riding bareback.
...your post that is, You know I love ya darlin', but that was a long post, lost me about half way into it, had to read it over again to take it all in. Some very good points, He said my post proved his point, I don;t know how, but we'll let him keep thinking that. I think I made mine well, I don;t need to pay to play, I choose to do so.
Your spelling and grammer are fine, look at me I've been in the country my entire life and I can't spell at all
The thing you said about not being able to get rid of someone who was pretty much a one night stand is very true also, having that trouble right now, with a very attractive 22 college student I might ad. So why hobby, Like you said, you come to my place and yeah theres some foreplay (hell maybe alot), but in the end I get my cookie, you get yours and then we say goodbye and each go do our thing, no strings, just a good time.
I'm sure not offended by what hes saying either and no else should be either, You can tell hes confused and come on hes on here so you know hes at least curious and he'll be in the hobby in no time, in fact he'll be calling or e-mailing you first, LOL.
B-Pop
Yes I answer my emails ......
Unless I am on a 24 hour appointment or longer ( then it may take me a few days )
Unless my computer is down .......but that is usually fixed in 48 hours .
Unless I never got your email , but you thought I did because you sent it ......well sometimes emails do get lost in space If you don't hear back from me in 48 hours , please resend .
I try my best to stay ON TOP of my emails LOL LOL
p.s. "keep in touch" emails I can not always answer or I would have to be up 24/7 ( refer to my email policy on my site )
I love the Charlie Sheen quote and it speaks for a lot of guys in this hobby. I understand the mindset of the guy who doesn't "get it..." there are tons of men in this "hobby" who, if they chose to hang in bars and clubs and "party" could get laid... but not everyone has the time or inclination to do that gig. I'm an older guy and admit to the fact that I love young women and would probably have a hard time getting them to bed in the club world. But more then that, I don't want the drama, the phone calls, the BS that accompanies the "real world" dating or bar/club scene. Kobe thought that shit was free but turns out to be probably the most expensive piece of pussy in history. You never know... unless you pay them to leave
P.S. Re: the numbers quoted in the original post ($400-2500) for a BJ... most well-reputed ladies in the biz provide excellent full service for $300-400 and hour.
...why do people buy bottled water when you can get can get it out of your faucet for "free". Fact is, most bottled water is from the same supply as your tap water, but there may be various enhancements that make it more appealing. Then there is the proverbial "convenience" factor. Of course, for some "hobbiests"..it may simply be an "aDICKtion"!
You've made a perfectly valid post here and there's no reason anyone should "flame you" for it. Truth is, back when I was your age, no way would I have considered the services of a "provider". Indeed it's not an inexpensive "hobby" at all, but, as stated in many responses already, it's a matter of choice.
Perhaps, another analogy would be "why buy a caddilac, when a chevy will get you safely down the road"? Well, for many people, those extra features are nice to have...IF you can afford them!!
Enjoy life... we're only here for a brief moment in time!
I wanted to add something...I dont know if this makes sense to you..but its about more than that...I am sure there are some girls out there that the things I am going to say wont apply to..but..they are few and far between...when you are 21 yes you can find a girl to have a one night stand with..but if you start to do it with the same girl over and over again..she is bound to get feelings..and chances are she may even turn crazy..claim she is pregnant or want more from you then you want to give..if you are somewhat succesful and have a lot to lose.. you cant take chances... you cant afford for a girl to pull some stunt..or even call your cell when your wife is there..providers are professional..they know how to be discreet (the good ones know) they know if they call and you say" wrong # " that its not the wrong number..someone is there so you cant talk...they will give you exactly what you want..whether it be a blowjob ( mine are not covered) or greek... and you dont have to wine and dine them to get it..if you work a stressful day and you want to just lie there and have someone BBBJ till you feel better they will and you dont have to make small talk ..and when its over if you want they will get up and go..you dont have to hangout if you dont want..it allows you to be 100% selfish if thats the service you want..if you want more..GFE.. there are those like me that will also do that..I myself have seen a few professional athlete"s..and after seeing one..they send all their friends to you..why..because your hot..you give them what they want and then..no strings..all those "groupies" are just waiting to find their ticket on the shoulders of them..one told me.." they dont have to worry about a lawsuit..patternity or otherwise" and chances are I wont even remember his phone number thenext day never mind bother him... others cant be seen with anyone.. so you can just sneek up to his room..or even get the room for him so noone see's him there..others ask if you can be seen with them because they like to be seen with different hot girls it boost's their ego..when you are older and married and your wife is all stretched out from kids or even if she looks great and you want to fufill your bigger than her sex drive and you both are tired after work and she " does'nt feel like it" you can find a girl who is exactly your type and have a little break from the stress of life for an hour and feel so great after ..then you wont need to have an affair which always..always ..has some kind of complication.whether it be someone finding out..or the girl wanting you to leave your wife..who you love and dont want to ever be without...if you are a head of a bank or a construction worker chances are it would not look good to get caught in a messy affair... some hobbyiest like to see many different girls just for change..others like to find one or two they really like and build a rapport so they can feel more comfortable..like on a one night stand if you want greek..chances are she wont not on the first time..or if you like something kinda kinky..even like for a girl to keep thigh high's on or more kinky..you cant ask a girl you just met " hey you think you could do this?" you will feel to weird..unless your drunk and then if you both are.. she may the next day say did not want to do..blah blah" and get you in trouble not with a provider.. I dont care how great you look..there is always a girl who you will want that wont want you..it happens..not with this hobby..you can even sleep with porno stars..how many joe blows can say they made one...mabye thats not your thing but for some it is..some of the people here answered you like you dont know anything..which is there right..but I am not too much older than you..but I know when I was 21 even 22 I thought i knew alot...I thought other people had no clue.. you cant see it now..but I gaurantee when you are 30 you will look back and say " wow I had no clue"..I say it to myself..and I see it in my younger sisters..one is 23 and she knows everything the things I said are just some of the reasons people see providers..they are not everyone's opinion..just mine
Your perspective makes sense . You want a special service that you can't get at home and your willing to pay for it .
That is why guys hire me ...... they get things they could never get at home .
Now maybe what I offer isn't personally what YOU look for , but many out there who do look for what I offer .........if it wasn't like that I would be long ago "out of business"
The reason I responded the way I did wasn't because any nerve was hit . He doesn't get it , it isn't about paying $400 for a CBJ. but that is what he seems to get from reading some posts and reviews .
My answer may be a bit sarcastic because I find when you put things in a sarcastic way people seem to get it more .
Also it makes the post much more fun to read , makes you chuckle and it isn't just a boring answer .
He also didn't get what B-pop was trying to say . Maybe he will get what I trying to say .
He asked a question , he got plenty of reasons why .Everyone here brought up very valid points and reasons .( I especially love the car analogy ) If he still doesn't "get it" well maybe a few years from now he will
Off now to add some spice to someone's life
See you also have a reason for not so perfect grammar or spelling .......Sorry if it came across as I was criticizing , I didn't mean it like that ....... I just wanted to be sure that maybe you were not a teenager in high school .
Your post here proves you are not !
See you could have taken your money and gotten screwed with your pants off instead of getting screwed with your pants on !! LOL LOL . But very cute story .
I am glad to see you have learned something . That is what these boards are all about , to ask , share and learn .
Not to worry no one wants to kill you and if you do ever hire a lady , just be a gentleman and you will have the time of your life ........... of course be sure to hire only one of the top Vegas ladies .
A nurse outfit can always be arranged *wink wink*
About your other question ....... are you writing a paper for Collage ?? I had a collage guy email me asking me such questions saying he needed it for a collage project .
Yeah I guess now us "internet ladies" can be a collage term project ........what has this world come too !! LOL LOL
But to answer your question . Yes that can happen , we are human too we have feelings . But you don't have sex with someone and bamm your in love ...........maybe lust
love takes a bit until you get to know each other . If the guy is single it may go somewhere . If he is married then probably not . I know quite a few escorts who fell in love with a client and the client had the same feelings and they are now together .
It's just like in any job you can meet someone and fall in love with them ......just here we get a bit of a head start because we already know how the sex will be
xoxo CindySpice
If you are looking for the nurse fantasy check out Sierra's site and the new pictures she put up. Some very hot ones of her in a nurses outfit!