I love having a man or woman or both at the same time go down on me. Having my Yoni tended to is the highlight of my morning, day, afternoon, evening, and night..LOL I think I rest my case.
like "yeah bitch i got you lickin' my pussy up and down!!!!" I mean i'm sure it feels good too....but the ladies on average would rather be humped, right?
cause I was with a young lady recently and during conversation she said DATY is okay, but it's like being with a girl and even then girls use toys...
So I was like....yeah a man should be using his God given equipment!
And she was like yeah it's a much better feeling. A man needs to be strong enough to keep going for a while cause it takes women longer...and oral sex will not cut it or satisfy that need. Then she went on to talk about her female friend's relationship falling apart because the sex wasn't good for her etc.
Which got me to thinking about all the dudes that review and post about wanting to please a woman doing DATY and writing romance novels about her cumming a million times. Some times I think some dudes like eating pussy more than the girls likes getting her pussy ate beyond her feeling in control from a mental standpoint
but I would venture a guess to say that there are just as many, if not more, ladies who truly enjoy the "pleasure" aspect of DATY and don't think of it as power.
We all know there are women who don't get off orally and only allow it for business. There are also women who truly enjoy DATY as it enhances the entire time together with a man.
I like a lady who is receptive and, if needed, knows how to gently guide me through her pleasure because that enhances things for both of us.
Maybe THAT is the true power the ladies possess? Knowing what they want and being able to get it.
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Lol if done right or with some proper instruction It's welcomed! I love it. And why fight the feeling? Love it
what is going on in your mind than it has to do with the response women have had to you. Generally women have a slower sexual response than men but are less likely to orgasm from penetration alone. The physiology of women requires that there be stimulation of the clitoris and labia. And to stimulate the G-spot, the use of fingers or sexual aids is needed, although deep dog or cowgirl can help. And I don't see how oral sex as involving power. It's just a sex act that feels great to the recipient.
I love having a man or woman or both at the same time go down on me. Having my Yoni tended to is the highlight of my morning, day, afternoon, evening, and night..LOL I think I rest my case.
I love doing it and have never had any complaints from those I have done it with if you like doing something everything else does not matter.
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some exertion of power, whether it's balanced or one partner holds more than another in a certain position/scenario?And um, yeah, I hope it's psychological satisfaction as well! Sex is physical and mental! I hope if you are performing oral sex that you are doing so with the aim of giving satisfaction, otherwise I don't know what else you'd be doing down there (tease and denial, fetish aspects not included). Giving and receiving pleasure are both powerful things.
And that's highly personal whether they prefer DATY or penetration. Some people love, like, tolerate, hate, etc. every different aspect of sex. From people who don't like a lot of touching (too ticklish) to people who NEED specific kinds of touch, kissing, etc.
I happen to be super selfish and I want generous amounts of both... I'm demanding, what can I say?
And that's highly personal whether they prefer DATY or penetration. Some people love, like, tolerate, hate, etc. every different aspect of sex. From people who don't like a lot of touching (too ticklish) to people who NEED specific kinds of touch, kissing, etc.
I happen to be super selfish and I want generous amounts of both... I'm demanding, what can I say?
fair enough. It was part of a conversation and I suggested that in the situation in which she was referring to.... that if the guy can't get it done because he came too soon (though cumming doesn't always equals deflating in my mind...unless i jack off too may times or too close to playtime) he could be an oral sex champ. or if he had problems getting it up because of getting high/drunk substances he could be the oral sex champ.
I just feel oral sex can only take a guy but so far...but you need to be able to lay pipe to keep a relationship going especially when we talking 20s and early 30's or you may get left or cheated on.