yourself and if there is chemistry then so be it. No one can make chemistry between two people, it is just a natural thing in life. Chemistry is not always about sex. It is like when you were a kid, you just made friends easier and got along better with some kids than others. It was not how they dressed or physically looked, you just became friends because of the chemistry between you.
If you want to break the ice with someone you may want to communicate (email, text or chat) with them prior to your date, so you get a feel of their personality; which will make it easier when you physically meet because you will have gotten to know a little about each other.So, I see that "having chemistry" is important for the overall experience, which makes sense. My question is "What does it mean to have chemistry?" Are folks using it synonymously with sexual attraction? or is it more subtle? With many providers I am a loss of how to break the ice or build the chemistry. It seems like there is a quick greeting and then down to business.
Providers - any advice? Hobbyists - any advice??? Thanks!
Whether it's P4P or Civvie world, it's two people meeting and you know within a few moments if there is something more than "Hi. You are pretty. Wanna screw?".
The look in the eye. Back and forth communication. Similar experiences and view points. The feeling from the first touch and first kiss.
It can and does happen at the grocery store check out line. It can happen anywhere.
Sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't. Enjoy the company you are with and don't worry about it. And be sure to really read the reviews
When I have chemistry with someone, it means they are like a drug. I can't wait to see them again..and again.. I do naughty things to myself when I'm all alone and thinking about them. Then I end the visits it if I start getting too cuckoo and obsessive.
So when I use the word "chemistry" it's the good shit, man. I use the word "connect" more loosely for people I jive with.
Providers - any advice? Hobbyists - any advice??? Thanks!
Sometimes in this hobby, we forget people are human. The feeling of playing with someone, you have chemistry with is the best. You don't have to explain or ask for shit, they already know what you like and the person knows how to get you there!! Then when you are out the door, you are already planning your next visit with them. Since you can't wait to see them again.
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yourself and if there is chemistry then so be it. No one can make chemistry between two people, it is just a natural thing in life. Chemistry is not always about sex. It is like when you were a kid, you just made friends easier and got along better with some kids than others. It was not how they dressed or physically looked, you just became friends because of the chemistry between you.
If you want to break the ice with someone you may want to communicate (email, text or chat) with them prior to your date, so you get a feel of their personality; which will make it easier when you physically meet because you will have gotten to know a little about each other.
