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My thoughts FWIW...
riorunner 658 reads
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Hi Ben;
  I'm not a provider, who you might prefer to hear from, but I've wondered the same thing you're posting about.
   We're about the same age, I was blessed with good genes and have often been told I look younger than my years. I certainly feel younger than my years most days!
   Still, I'm pretty certain that many of the chicas would rather be making hay with guys closer to their own age. But then, this is a fantasy world and the better professionals are able to fulfill that for most all clients.
   Too, I've become friends with some much younger ladies, enough to have frank OTC discussions about this very topic. I've been pleasantly surprised at how often I'm told several things. Such as that oftentimes men our age have perfected techniques that more than make up for a diminished stamina. That we know our way around a woman's body much better than guys their own age. That older clients tend to be much more respectful, better listeners, more accomplished or interesting in general. That older guys often open their eyes to possibilities or perspectives they were unaware of. And of course, our wallets tend to be fatter as well...lol Stereotypes to be sure, but it appears that many women feel they have some validity.
  For me, my sweet spot tends to be from around 28 to 40 years old. When contacting a woman at the younger end I make a point of calling attention to my age and simply asking if she's alright with it. Have yet to be turned down because of an age preference by a younger woman.
                                                                                                              Regards.....RR

calcben32780 reads

I've always wanted to ask this question.  When I was back in my 30's and 40's, I was quite fit and by most standards considered handsome.  Now that I'm in my early 50's, I have less hair on my head, 25 extra pounds that I can't seem to get rid of, and a few of those signs of getting older.  I enjoy a variety of different types of providers.  Body type, age, ethnicity, height, hair color, etc.  So while I enjoy the company of a mature lady close to my own age, I equally enjoy younger providers.  The question that I have though is this:  Do the younger providers tend to frown a bit and maybe less enthusiastic when spending time with older men?  I'm very well groomed and conscientious and I would hate like hell to have someone that really didn't like "my type" and maybe provide an experience that might be less than their best.  I look forward to hearing your thoughts...both providers and hobbyists.

Thanks in advance,
Ben

riorunner659 reads

Hi Ben;
  I'm not a provider, who you might prefer to hear from, but I've wondered the same thing you're posting about.
   We're about the same age, I was blessed with good genes and have often been told I look younger than my years. I certainly feel younger than my years most days!
   Still, I'm pretty certain that many of the chicas would rather be making hay with guys closer to their own age. But then, this is a fantasy world and the better professionals are able to fulfill that for most all clients.
   Too, I've become friends with some much younger ladies, enough to have frank OTC discussions about this very topic. I've been pleasantly surprised at how often I'm told several things. Such as that oftentimes men our age have perfected techniques that more than make up for a diminished stamina. That we know our way around a woman's body much better than guys their own age. That older clients tend to be much more respectful, better listeners, more accomplished or interesting in general. That older guys often open their eyes to possibilities or perspectives they were unaware of. And of course, our wallets tend to be fatter as well...lol Stereotypes to be sure, but it appears that many women feel they have some validity.
  For me, my sweet spot tends to be from around 28 to 40 years old. When contacting a woman at the younger end I make a point of calling attention to my age and simply asking if she's alright with it. Have yet to be turned down because of an age preference by a younger woman.
                                                                                                              Regards.....RR

calcben32444 reads

Thanks Riorunner.  I appreciate your lengthy response.  I too have asked providers if my age is a concern and have never been told it does.  I guess it's just part of the business for them too.

Ben

xknightx611 reads

Do you really want to know the answer to this ... seriously?  

Posted By: calcben32
I've always wanted to ask this question.  When I was back in my 30's and 40's, I was quite fit and by most standards considered handsome.  Now that I'm in my early 50's, I have less hair on my head, 25 extra pounds that I can't seem to get rid of, and a few of those signs of getting older.  I enjoy a variety of different types of providers.  Body type, age, ethnicity, height, hair color, etc.  So while I enjoy the company of a mature lady close to my own age, I equally enjoy younger providers.  The question that I have though is this:  Do the younger providers tend to frown a bit and maybe less enthusiastic when spending time with older men?  I'm very well groomed and conscientious and I would hate like hell to have someone that really didn't like "my type" and maybe provide an experience that might be less than their best.  I look forward to hearing your thoughts...both providers and hobbyists.  
   
 Thanks in advance,  
 Ben

bigguy30563 reads

They only see the color green, most young girls want young guys!! We were all young once and remember how it was back then right? So that is your answer to your question. I am sorry, but it's true and deep down you know it too!

Speaking from personal experience, yes, there are younger providers that enjoy older men.  It all depends on the woman.  I think for some, it's exactly like men.  Men enjoy variety, and differences in women's bodies -- same for the females.  Many men enjoy having a woman get turned on and orgasm with them, and same for women.

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The majority of my clients are over 60 & I love a mature gentleman!

I see a lot of younger providers posting ads that say they prefer older men. I've seen some say "must be over 40", etc. I think maybe they feel older men are less hassle or safer. Maybe they don't like the attitudes of younger guys who think they are God's gift to women!

Hi, I'm 75 and blessed with Cerebral Palsy, use a walker.  The few providers I've met have had no problem with age or disability.  Been up front with them.  Have been creative, found ways to make provider and myself happy.

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