The problem with me is that I feel guilty after I get back home. It just feels wrong, unfair, taking advantage of someone half my age. I know it's all me, but I just can't help to feel it.
A few threads down, you will see my post re my mental block about booking time with under-25 ladies. The consensus was that I should go for it, and I took the advice. Well the outcome with this 24 year old was shocking to say the least. Our session went from the 2 hour scheduled time to over 6 hours. No change in the fee. This girl was truly fascinating, and apparently she felt at least somewhat similar because I put zero pressure on her for any extension. The decision to extend was freely made by her. At the end she gave me her real name and contact information, and told me to reconnect whenever possible.
So anyone else out there who is hesitating due to a large age gap, don't worry about it. As others have said, the age difference can be irrelevant. I didn't really believe that advice when I got it, but I do now.
Plus the sex was mind blowing.
The problem with me is that I feel guilty after I get back home. It just feels wrong, unfair, taking advantage of someone half my age. I know it's all me, but I just can't help to feel it.
I expected to feel the same way, but I don't. You can cover a lot of territory in over 6 hours. We actually discussed age difference, and the potential for a twenty something to be weirded out by being with a guy who has kids older than her. I was not going to discuss family at all, but she really wanted to discuss this. She was categorical that this difference and situation was a total zero issue. I believe her considering the huge amount of extra time.
The part that I feel very fortunate about is that she is consistently rated 10 on looks and 9 on performance. I am chalking this one up to beginners luck.
I would not advertise her name, or mention in your review, if you write one, about the extreme extra time she gave you. It's probably not something she will offer to every guy she sees, nor does she want every client to expect that. Trust me, you will be doing her a dis-service if you mention it in your review.
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100% agree with this. I will never betray the confidence, especially after her being so generous and flat out fun. She was pretty clear that what happened was not her standard practice.
and ended up with a NCNS after waiting for nearly an hour near her hotel. When I e-mailed her the next day to try to find out what happened (and said how I didn't appreciate the brushoff), I got an atitude response 'Oh I can't have an emergency and not be able to be there' sort of answer. But not having 20 seconds to send an "I'm suddenly unavailable ' text message? So no more under 25's for me!
All of my clients, I am over 50, all have more similar stories of more drama than it's worth, and truly appreciate my stability. I am so glad you had a good time. I am not a clock watcher and so enjoy when, because they know what they are doing, get more, just because I am having such a good time..Horny in Scottsdale at the moment. Thank God I had one great client today!! Have fun out there! Kalina
I've experienced both ends of the spectrum, from true girl-friend experience to ROB, and both can be found at each end and in the middle of the age spectrum. Note that the OP hooked up with a well-reviewed date. Most of us don't pass out 9's and 10's like candy. I'm willing to bet a month of VIP that your date either hasn't been reviewed often or didn't hit consistently high scores in both categories, or you didn't pay attention to her reviews before you contacted her.
As always, YMMV. If you are consistently burned by any group, but not others, you may want to pay some extra attention to how you interact with them. I know that this hobby has helped open me to groups of people I may not have ever met otherwise. The Golden Rule is nice,but the Platinum Rule, do unto others what and how they want to be done, works better.
8.6. I wasn't totally annoyed by the no show, I know things happen; I was a bit annoyed that she didn't take 20 seconds to send me a text that she was not going to be available. But what really got my goat was when I let her know the next day that I was unhappy about it she came back with all kinds of attitude like I was wrong not be more undeerstanding (she never did tell what her actual problem was). I've been stood up a few times before and cancelled on less than a days notice as well, but always got at least an I'm sorry. That was the difference. And I never got to interact with her as I never got to meet her. And yes, it could have nothing to do with age, I've just found older providers to be considerate, and this one certainly was not.
no one under 25 rule before this incident based on the fact that only one of maybe 1/2 dozen U-25 ladies I had seen ever 'clicked' with me conversationally. Every once in a while I am tempted to break the rule for a really hot looking lady; this time I did and this is what happened, so Ill go back to following my own rules.
But I have had some absolutely wonderful dates with women who are my youngest daughters age. ( 25 range). Lots to talk about, a warm connection, and great physical bonding. Each instinctively understood the needs of a 60+ and orchestrated the slow journey to a grand finish that we often refer to. They were also extremely receptive and responsive to my pleasuring them. I have to assume that they were already bringing at least a few years of being sexually active and it shows.
Under 20 on the other hand, I have twice found to be a totally different experience. Except for hot young bodies, they lacked both the patience and technique that can only come with experience and maturity.
Somehow I knew it would
Hey thanks. It was your post that put me over the edge on the decision. A couple of days after the main event, my new acquaintance and I continue to dialog on an eclectic set of topics - over distance now. We both know that there is no financial or physical transaction in the near future, but nevertheless the experience carries on. Paraphrasing, Forrest Gump - the hobby is a box of chocolates - you never know what you are going to get.