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Dave 76015 Your Contact Email Message is Great!regular_smile
esports99 16 Reviews 406 reads
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Hi Dave,

The way you set up your email contact message, should be the standard for everybody.  It's respectful and to the point.  I know it may not work all the time, but the approach is a good one.

As we know, erotic reviews are an important tool for clients so we know what to expect and avoid disappointment. For providers it's an important part of marketing (or potentially cause a drop in business). Just like TripAdvisor or Yelp.  

I have great references but given up reviewing long ago...just preference. I deplore the thought of ever using reviewer status as leverage but wonder if I'm missing something when reviewers "seem" to have a more enthusiastic performance and options than I (could just be me). So....

Reviewers - do you ever provide your reviewer handle as a reference thinking that your status (multiple reviews) gets you a better experience?  

Providers - are you more likely to give your best (looks/performance) when you know you're meeting a well established reviewer rather than when you're meeting a generous non-reviewer client you've previously met???

I love what I do and as you can see from my reviews it shows :)
It makes no difference to me at all if someone is writing a review as long as its an honest review.

The reviewers handle makes it quicker  as far as screening clients goes.
being they already have a list of references :)

xoxoxoxo
LT

Im sure you already know but its always a good idea to have them email you from their account. I actually ran into a guy that was using another gentlemans handle as a way to bypass my reference requirement.... but something didnt seem right about him.... so I asked him to send me a message... which he never did. and when i informed him i still would need a reference from  a provider he had seen he got angry with me and threatened me!

Several have said that I don't need to provide personal information because of my review history.  I have also been turned down even with my many reviews so you never know.

I think it helps a lady get a better idea of the person they are looking at booking.  Is it a 5 liner with the basic message of "we met, she sucked, we fucked and I left".  Or is it a pretty in depth, detailed description with nuance?  

When making decisions, I do use prior reviews to paint a picture of what potentially may happen, but there is no guarantee of anything happening.  YMMV.  

I have a a basic introduction email to see if there is interest:
My real name, and contact information.
TER handle, DC-ID.
Where I found their information.
Date, time, and length of meeting requested.  
A couple of recent references.
And see where it goes from there.   Even after a couple of emails, there would never be any discussion regarding "particulars".

 



-- Modified on 3/3/2014 11:58:26 AM

Hi Dave,

The way you set up your email contact message, should be the standard for everybody.  It's respectful and to the point.  I know it may not work all the time, but the approach is a good one.

You wouldn't think this is rocket science, but then I'm not a rocket scientist.  Just the basic facts, and the essentials without asking questions of a dubious nature.   Anything that someone would want to ask a question about (upfront, a bad idea, IMHO!), should be found on her website and TER reviews

I know some providers that actually wont see a guy if he mentions that he is a "well known hobbyist" or always writes reviews. I had never thought of it until a provider friend of mine mentioned she wont see such gentleman... When i asked her why she said they "expect you to bend over backwards for a good review" Now while I dont 100% agree I have ran into certain situations where I almost felt like I was being "Threatened" with a none flattering review if I didnt do more then normal! A gentleman I saw once kept mentioning during our session that he'd have to "make sure to mention that in his review" whenever he would ask me to do something that I dont offer... This happened 3 times during our session and I was sure it would be a horrible review! Much to my surprise it wasnt... and he seemed to enjoy our session even without the "extras" he was asking for.... Unfortunately there actually are guys out there that will use reviews as a way to intimidate a provider to a certain extent! IMO most gentlemen mention it as a way to make a provider feel more comfortable about his legitimacy.
actually Ive found that when a client mentions posting a review more then once during our session Im more nervous... I dont perform well under pressure lol I prefer to be comfortable and not feel like i actually am having to perform or worry about what they are going to write... I like it to be natural and a surprise :-)
I guess regardless I always try to give my best, I Like to be remembered!

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