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Re: the only way they will read....teeth_smile
ki.wan 76 Reviews 148 reads
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What came after breasts?????

Most ladies clearly state in their ads/websites the preferred or acceptable best way to contact her.

Some ladies like phone, others text, others email but you to read in her ad/website exactly what that is.

Personally I do NOT accept text because anyone can grab your phone and text - including wives, etc.
Yet other ladies prefer text. To each her own - it is her business how she wants to conduct business/have contact.

So if you are not hearing back from ladies - perhaps it is because you are doing it a way the lady is not comfortable in having contact.

Also, many ladies state the hours they work/answer inquires as well. Be sure you are contacting her during those times if by phone or text.

Just a friendly reminder that us ladies put this information in our ads/websites to help you.

I understand not all ladies do this BUT most do so PLEASE READ the information we provide.

Thank you and everyone play safe.

Guys get mad when ladies don't respond. I just wanted to share why perhaps that happens.

Personally I get calls at all times - including in the middle of the night (phone is turned off), I get texts, emails, PM's and in my ads and website I state I am old fashioned and want to talk to you.

So I have suggested to TER that they need to add to ladies profiles how she prefers contact and her working hours (if she has some).

But just trying to help guys see things from a ladies point of view = we have ways we prefer to do things & if you don't then you probably won't hear back from her.

Hope this helps.

GreekDeprived591 reads

you mean it's like if you call a phone number other than the one provided, you won't get a hold of that person? :-))

Deprived and dubious

Good point in reminding men to read the directions before using any tools, motor vehicles or machinery!  

I've seen instructions that include the notice if they don't know how to follow directions, phone numbers get blocked.  No ifs or buts.  

Good luck and be safe

Sometimes information is several embedded pages in a website, with Flash and the like. Simple tabs would be great. I don't have 30 minutes to read thru someone's website.  Just like when I screen resumes for jobs, I won't devote tons of time on any given one.

No music...EVER.

Would be nice if calendars/contact info is kept current.  Some websites, I can't tell where the provider is located.

I rarely fill information on a contact page unless the provider also includes an actual email address. Equally, don't know who actually has access to the screening info with a blind contact page.  I can at least Google history on an email address.  

I know this is a naive wishlist item...state your preferences, racial or otherwise.

Many providers don't want hobbyists insinuating things with "code" words...equally there are some very obtuse language on provider websites to describe rates, photo galleries, and contacting the individual

remember,  the men looking at the website or ad have one thing on their mind at that time and place.  Hint; it ain't something to eat and it ain't sports.  I think all of us are lucky we aren't able to smell your female scent through the internet.  All bets would be off if that were to happen.  
Also, remember the Kevin Kline character in "A Fish Called Wanda".   "...what was that second thing again?"

Male dogs can smell a female dog in heat up to a mile away. Thank goodness that isn't true with humans otherwise you would see a lot of convertible cars with men's noses "doing the driving" ...LOL

Yes men don't read instruction manuals, ask for directions, and think with the little head but ....
maybe that is what we all love about you all.

Have a great weekend.
Hopefully we will all get wet...rain or otherwise. :)

Yes, this would save a lot of time wasting for everyone. I like a friendly email, or a call. I don't answer texts as a first contact especially if all you write is - available?? - what am I supposed to do with that? Or someone calling at 3am, surely you jest I don't sit up all night waiting for calls :) I need me some beauty sleep!

Theres nothing that drives me up the wall more then when something is posted IN BOLD CAPITAL AND UNDERLINED LETTERS and is still overlooked .... Sometimes I just have to laugh it off.... but I also dont like the first time texters saying "wassup" or simply texting "hey" my response if any is always the same "Do I know you" for whatever reason guys seem to get really mad with that response and assume you have an attitude...

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