I know that this is a bit like feeding the troll, but I am genuinely curious how you think that "Just get yer dick in there!!" is taking the pressure off?
And, seriously, he's not getting it anytime soon "so he should see a provider"?
Sex doesn't fix everything, and we are most certainly not in the business of trying to fuck someone's troubles away. That doesn't happen. Can sexual experience help build ones confidence? Sure. But it is not the end all and be all that you're trying to make it out to be.
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, just like there's nothing wrong with seeing a provider every day of the week. It's about what's right for each individual. You can disrespect the people in this thread all you want, but that is not going to change. The OP is clearly looking to be comfortable during his encounter, so why go so far to insist he do anything but?
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And, seriously, he's not getting it anytime soon "so he should see a provider"?
Sex doesn't fix everything, and we are most certainly not in the business of trying to fuck someone's troubles away. That doesn't happen. Can sexual experience help build ones confidence? Sure. But it is not the end all and be all that you're trying to make it out to be.
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, just like there's nothing wrong with seeing a provider every day of the week. It's about what's right for each individual. You can disrespect the people in this thread all you want, but that is not going to change. The OP is clearly looking to be comfortable during his encounter, so why go so far to insist he do anything but?
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Posted By: Zangari
I've read the OP's first post three times now, and there's a lot of pain there. I don't envy what he's gone through. I'm glad he's dealing with these issues openly & honestly. And he's still young--it's a very positive sign that he's addressing these issues at age 25 rather than at age 45.
Nothing would be better if his first sexual experience was with a girl who loved him. But based on what he's written, that's not happening any time soon. So he should see a provider. But let's not make his first session a make-or-break session. He doesn't need that pressure. Even an experienced gent can have a bad session, despite screening & reading reviews. After the OP has had a few successful sessions, he'll have more confidence in himself. And then he's much more likely to find a girlfriend. --z
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I've read the OP's first post three times now, and there's a lot of pain there. I don't envy what he's gone through. I'm glad he's dealing with these issues openly & honestly. And he's still young--it's a very positive sign that he's addressing these issues at age 25 rather than at age 45.
Nothing would be better if his first sexual experience was with a girl who loved him. But based on what he's written, that's not happening any time soon. So he should see a provider. But let's not make his first session a make-or-break session. He doesn't need that pressure. Even an experienced gent can have a bad session, despite screening & reading reviews. After the OP has had a few successful sessions, he'll have more confidence in himself. And then he's much more likely to find a girlfriend. --z
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Posted By: USUfan
I actually think this guy has his head on straight. Like all of us, he has his issues, or is London issue free?
I actually envy this guy. He's younger than me and due to his line of work, he also probably has a heck of a lot more money to spend, and because of that, he could have some sessions with some first class providers.
I actually think this guy has his head on straight. Like all of us, he has his issues, or is London issue free?
I actually envy this guy. He's younger than me and due to his line of work, he also probably has a heck of a lot more money to spend, and because of that, he could have some sessions with some first class providers. Current Thread
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Very overwhelmed, inexperienced newbie. Any help at all would be greatly appreciated.
BeyondAllHope | 7/20/2012 2:04:06 PM (989 reads)- Let's try and keep it simple...
Bostonguy57 | 7/20/2012 6:42:28 PM (667 reads) - A few things.
crazyshit | 7/20/2012 6:53:17 PM (642 reads) - Re: A few things.
serpius | 7/21/2012 3:25:10 AM (447 reads) - Thanks
BeyondAllHope | 7/20/2012 7:28:48 PM (420 reads) - question from one newbie to another....
USUfan | 7/20/2012 10:33:17 PM (397 reads) - Re: question from one newbie to another....
radiodictum | 7/22/2012 6:44:22 AM (367 reads) - I will try to help .......
guybeingaguy | 7/21/2012 3:54:31 AM (342 reads) - I can also wholeheartedly recommend Ashley.
crazyshit | 7/21/2012 2:38:57 AM (332 reads) - Don't allow yourself to be overwhelmed
Zangari | 7/21/2012 2:51:22 AM (352 reads) - Re: Don't allow yourself to be overwhelmed
serpius | 7/21/2012 3:28:36 AM (345 reads) - I think I'm the only one who will say this...
OhCharlie | 7/21/2012 8:09:47 AM (456 reads) - You're the only one because it's terrible advice
Zangari | 7/21/2012 11:15:24 AM (389 reads) - Great post, Zangari!
USUfan | 7/21/2012 12:12:19 PM (333 reads) - Re: Great post, Zangari!
OhCharlie | 7/21/2012 12:39:08 PM (312 reads) - Re: Great post, Zangari!
Zangari | 7/21/2012 1:17:08 PM (298 reads) - So are you suggesting he pay for an overnight for his first time as opposed to a quickie?
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 1:54:41 PM (316 reads) - Logical fallacy made by ohCharlie
USUfan | 7/21/2012 2:08:45 PM (278 reads) - My 2 cents
ddp71 | 7/22/2012 10:48:41 AM (321 reads) - Just because YOU don't value your first sexual encounter, does not mean the next person won't.
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 12:13:49 PM (341 reads) - You're entitled to your opinion. I understand that.
USUfan | 7/21/2012 12:23:24 PM (280 reads) - Re: Just because YOU don't value your first sexual encounter, does not mean the next person won't.
Zangari | 7/21/2012 1:35:09 PM (317 reads) - Nice way to divert from the obvious, but you were one yelling about any advice
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 1:42:11 PM (280 reads) - Re: Nice way to divert the obvious, but you were the one saying no one could have an opinion
Zangari | 7/21/2012 2:10:02 PM (319 reads) - You really do need to learn how to debate lol. YOU are the only one
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 2:18:59 PM (242 reads) - Re: You really do need to learn how to debate lol. YOU are the only one
Zangari | 7/21/2012 2:45:56 PM (241 reads) - You can stop babbling honey...he just proved MY point below ha ha.
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 2:50:17 PM (303 reads) - What point was that?
Zangari | 7/21/2012 2:56:03 PM (256 reads) - That's because you can't see with your head up your ass hon. Gosh..
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 3:01:49 PM (336 reads) - Turning tricks at the convent is frowned upon (eom)
Zangari | 7/21/2012 4:00:00 PM (253 reads) - How London's point was proven below is beyond me
USUfan | 7/21/2012 5:21:32 PM (335 reads) - Re: You're the only one because it's terrible advice
OhCharlie | 7/21/2012 12:35:06 PM (297 reads) - Re: You're the only one because it's terrible advice
Zangari | 7/21/2012 1:48:42 PM (236 reads) - Re: You're the only one because it's terrible advice
OhCharlie | 7/21/2012 2:52:28 PM (244 reads) - He has a hard time seeing himself, but it's obvious why lol.
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 3:07:26 PM (287 reads) - You made this thread about you, not the op
Zangari | 7/21/2012 4:00:00 PM (275 reads) - I find it interesting that London claims to be this great debater.....
USUfan | 7/21/2012 5:11:30 PM (299 reads) - Fallacies..really? Freshman undergrad course babe...not impressed, and yea I made an A in that too.
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 5:58:10 PM (274 reads) - multiple quotes
BeyondAllHope | 7/21/2012 1:52:27 PM (310 reads) - Thank you for addressing the FACT that you do care about more
London Rayne | 7/21/2012 2:35:26 PM (318 reads) - He addressed the FACT in his 1st post you didn't read
Zangari | 7/21/2012 4:00:00 PM (319 reads) - "Lost and Confused"?!?!?!?!
USUfan | 7/21/2012 5:20:13 PM (309 reads) - Re: "Lost and Confused"?!?!?!?!
Zangari | 7/21/2012 7:28:11 PM (284 reads) - Re: "Lost and Confused"?!?!?!?!
OhCharlie | 7/21/2012 11:11:29 PM (278 reads) - Re: "Lost and Confused"?!?!?!?!
Zangari | 7/22/2012 3:57:07 AM (283 reads) - Re: "Lost and Confused"?!?!?!?!
OhCharlie | 7/22/2012 9:36:13 AM (289 reads) - Your post = rehash + insults, duly noted (eom)
Zangari | 7/22/2012 6:21:46 PM (254 reads) - Re: multiple quotes
OhCharlie | 7/21/2012 3:04:08 PM (338 reads) - Don't Sweat It.
LameTiger | 7/22/2012 12:33:20 AM (290 reads) - Thank You
BeyondAllHope | 7/23/2012 5:02:49 PM (283 reads)
