I'd like to hear that story too...??
I've had 2 of my regulars change and rip me off. Has anyone else had this happen? I know times are tough but why would they mess something good up especially how often I see them. I just don't see how one time is worth it when they get so much more after that one time.
I've been enjoying time with regulars, but I've had to "do some exploring" for roughly the same reasons as MatthewO. Regulars have started to "ask for things" beyond the norm. Loans, advances, transportation, post for them, and more. These are the "high end" gals that I've enjoyed for years--years. It's been surprising, and must be related to global macroeconomic conditions. My local economy has not changed much, thankfully, so it's surprising that decisions are not based on the big picture, or the long haul. With my "generosity" alone, their rent could be paid, so it hard to believe things are that dire.
Karma will get those thieves in the end. Sad to say the least. Sorry this has happened to you. I would never steal from a client it is just bad business all around. Maybe they have pimps that are demanding...
I had a girl I had seen 5 or 6 times in the last 6 months CALL ME and ask if I anted to see her this week......Said she had some issues and was working the phones to raise some cash.
I was shocked and stunned she had my # saved in her phone....
...can you report it to the police or possibly file Rip Off reviews on them?
I'd like to hear that story too...??
To answer your questions here is what happened in one situation.....So my first regular that I first got to know and who become my regular was cool at first. When we first met our personalities matched and our performance was spot on to the point she was giving me discounts cause it was that good. I'm not braggin it's just what happened. So this goes on for a few months with me seeing her off and on then I just completely stopped seeing her cause I was honestly getting bored (I can't have too much of the same cause it gets boring after awhile no matter how hot the girl is). I never told her what I was feeling and never told her I was seeing other people too so I don't think she knew any of that. So anyways she would still hit me up from time to time wanting to hang out and I would sometimes but you could tell my performance was getting bland or at least I could. So our last time we got together I was trying to see another girl but she was busy so I hit up my regular and told her to come over. I had to go pick her up which I was ok with since she lives close and we knew each other pretty well. So I do that and bring her back to my house. Most the time we just get to business and chat after so when she went straight into the bathroom after we walked in my place it wasn't out of the normal. However she did stay in there 30 minutes and I could hear her talking on the phone over the running water. I didn't press my ear to the door like I knew I should have cause i was trying to respect her privacy but I just had a bad feeling. Normally she stays in the bathroom for like 15 minutes getting ready and this time was no different except it being 30 minutes. However what was different was I left my bag full of my cleaning supplies, glasses, all my carry items to keep clean when I travel. I had two pairs of oakley glasses, my electric shaver, some expensive tweezers, my watch and a few other items probably totally $700 or so all in that bag. Well I usually keep that out of the bathroom and hide all my valuables when i have company over but this time I was super lax cause I felt really comfortable with her. So anyways she go into the bag and stole all those items plus the donation I gave her (she earned that though). On top of that she wanted me to give her more donation for nothing more since she had rent to pay and she was expecting me to give her the money (btw we had this conversation before we got to my house and I told her I couldn't help her anymore than I already was). So ya I know I kind of asked for it but she didn't have to go and do it either so I look at it as being both our faults, her being the thief and me being naive. Afterwords I was so dumbfounded I didn't know how to react. All the items she stole are easily replaceable but it was the principle of that matter. She still doesn't know I know or at least I haven't admitted to knowing. That's story 1
Story 2 is not as dramatic but it pissed me off more than story one. So my second regular (she is the one I stopped seeing the first regular for) was cool at first as well. We hung out about 5 times before she decided to rip me off and had many conversations about her life. I had stopped seeing her for a week because I could not get a hold of her so I then went with regular number 1 and did my thing. I didn't tell regular 2 about regular 1 so she never knew. However after we were done talking I told her I didn't have any hats so I hoped she had one. Her first comment was she was surprised I didn't have any then said she had some in the car. Now normally I wouldn't fall for that and I even brought the point up I don't trust her to come back but she said she wouldn't do me like that and we would be straight. I was still reluctant but I went with it and told her as she walked out I was trusting her. So I gave myself 5 minutes before I knew she wasn't coming back and let me tell you that was the fastest 5 minutes of my life. So I proceeded to call her to only go to voicemail. Well I knew at this point she was gone and I was out my donation. She didn't take anything extra besides that but the fact I trusted her and kept saying I would try to trust her just chaps my hide. I did a few other things to help her out but I won't mention those, let's just say I was trying to keep her out of trouble. I text her after that telling her she was lower than low for her to do that to me after what I did for her. I wasn't asking for anything besides what I was paying for. Nothing extra beyond that so as you can see this is why it pisses me off so much. Truthfully I should be more mad a regular number 1 but I'm not. All the items she took were valuable but to me the principles matter more than material value. I know weird but it's just the way I am.
So ya that's what happened with those two regulars. But to be honest I have been ripped off a total of 5 times and one of them being the girl took my computer and maxed my cc out. That is why I stuck solely with my regulars but even this proves those girls can't be trusted just as much as the girls specifically looking to rip you off. I know it's the name of the game which is why I haven't complained before but these past 2 were regulars just didn't make sense. For what they took to mess the relationship up did not even out at all so to me it doesn't make sense but it's not my life they are hurting to better. They have to better their lives and I guess they are desperate enough to steal from people who trust in them.
On a side note I have no more regulars. I had a third regular I was seeing but recently found out from a recent review she is having unprotected play time so now I have to go get checked out to make sure I am not sick. I hope I am not and I am thankful for this site and the reviews cause I would have never known she was doing that stuff and I would have kept seeing her. It honestly disgusts me for her to have such little regard for my safety so f her. I hope others wake up to her gross ways as well.
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Wow man sorry to hear about you begin ripoff.
I mean it sucks but I also learned you have to only commit to what you are willing to lose say it happens. Most the time with a new girl I will only do a hh session not because I'm cheap but because I want to get to know them but most of all make sure they are legit. Most the time if I do like them I will extend the session to whatever I feel I need from them depending if they are willing which they have been every time. I'm really patient and listen to their needs but it just seems it's not enough or maybe I'm just too nice idk. Either way I'm done with them and moving on. It was just a rant I had to do and to let others know their are girls like this out there. If anyone was to ask me who they were in pm's I would have no issue telling the names. I just don't feel like putting them on blast through this discussion board even though that would probably be smarter to do.
That is one of the dangers of using your house as an outcall. Not only can they rip you off right away, they get a chance to case the joint and see what kind of security you have so meth-head boyfriend/pimp has a new target with a description of where things are so he doesn't have to waste time searching.
The whole idea is that this forum exists to warn people of dangers, get & give advice, and find new fantastic friends. It definite not CandyLand out there, and if ripoffs can think they can get away with it without any consequence, well, if you are not part of the solution then you are part of the problem
Although I agree with you on them being able to case the joint honestly I feel more unsafe going to an incall. I have weapons in my house that I will use if I have too and they are hidden, easily accessible but hidden. Then where I live it would be obvious if they wanted to harm me or rob me since I neighbors upon neighbors who live by me. Walking out with the money is different since I never chased them down so I couldn't say for sure who was waiting outside. Once I heard my front door open and close I got up and made sure I had my weapon ready. Like you said you never know with these girls and the ones looking to rip you off have a sadistic look in their eyes. I recognized it every time in the 3 girls who just ran out but each time I was thinking no way this is gonna happen. I'll admit I was pretty willing to get ripped off now that I think about it and am lucky I didn't get harmed on top of that. So I thought I learned and was sticking solely with my regulars or someone verified with reviews. My regulars proved to be rip offs (they are both 19 years old) but the verified ladies were all legit so I do know how to do it right I just made some mistakes which I hope others learn from cause I know I have.
I also agree if I am not helping to stop it I am condoning it so I'll make more of an effort now to make sure no one else has to go through what I have. I do feel bad thinking about it that I should have reported this every time it happened cause like you said they probably got a few other people after me. I'll just be straight though that I was ashamed I let that happen. I felt really stupid and didn't want people to know how dumb and trusting I am but I'm trying to look at it as a mistake now. With me being on here I now feel obligated to inform others of shady work if it happens. I was just running a run of bad luck with these ladies for awhile so it did put me down. I try to always be nice and make these ladies feel comfortable in my element so it took my by surprise that there was girls like this. I'd say the main reason I don't do incalls is cause not knowing what they have set up they could possibly steal my car (it's pretty expensive) so I don't even want to get into that situation since I have information in my car allowing them access to my life plus they would have all the keys and everything to my pad. I've read to many stories of the pimp coming out of no where and pulling a gun so I just feel more comfortable in my own element since I know where I have all the weapons if I need them.
But ya if any fellas wanna know more details just msg me. I have got a few already and have responded to them all so I have no issue answering emails. I know now we all need to look after each other's back and I have to apologize to this community for failing on my end. I won't let that happen again.
I don't know. You said some really odd things in there that I have to admit make me doubt your story.
I guess in the long run I have to say that you should just stop seeing these bottom of the barrel BP girls. That has to be who you are seeing given some of the things you wrote about as no decent provider here would behave in many of the ways you indicated.
Thank you captain obvious.
My story is true why would I make any of this up? You accusing me of that is plain stupid.
I also looked your reviews over as well. The quality of girls you have reviewed are no different than my girls. The main difference was with my two regulars when I first saw them there was no reviews so I was TOFTT and it worked out at first. The reason my stories don't make 100% sense is cause I'm leaving details out that will expose my identity so those details are not needed in this case. I didn't post this so anyone would believe me. No one on here is doing jack for me so I have nothing to gain from this. You can believe what you want, it really doesn't matter I just hope you don't come across these girls cause they are not the bottom of the barrel as far as their looks go.
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