Posted By: London Rayne Those are two different things. If you can't at least call or text to say you're not going to make it, why would the next girl take a chance on you doing the same thing?
I recognise you're not a prodomme, but as a service provider, could I ask your opinion on what you think is reasonable? My attitude is if you make an appointment with a pro-domme and don't show, what that means is you've wasted her time, more time than you paid for, since she needs to get to the dungeon, get everything ready then prepare herself, cost her the money she would have made from a paying client in that time slot, probably cost her dungeon rental (a lot of dommes don't own their own dungeons) which isn't the same as not getting money, she's actually losing money on no-shows, cost her travel money (petrol/gas isn't free nor is bus or trainfare), and then to top it all off you don't call or text or email to say your cancelling or offer an apology afterwards? Of course I expect her to blacklist you, why shouldn't she?
Would it therefore be reasonable to apply the same standards to providers?