Good.. I guess this means she'll have to know my real name after this. And what do I tell my friends if they ask how I know her? Maybe we can figure that out together beforehand? Cos if I tell them she's my massage therapist, they're probably gonna think "she jacks him off for $$$" (that's bad)
Hi I want to befriend a MP girl. she's my age and she has complimented my daty skills in the past and we are on friendly terms. Do you think it's out of line to ask her to hang out with some of my friends (both male and female friends) as JUST A FRIEND.
I don't want a relationship.. I just want to introduce to my friends, to make her part of the group. Or will these two worlds never mix? Repeat: I DO NOT WANT TO PURSUE ANYTHING MORE THAN FRIENDSHIP. 
willing to undergo...wait. Sorry. You mean Massage Parler girl, don't you. Sorry.
My only advice would be to ask her. She's not gonna believe the No Sex thing but you seem like a nice guy. It's less about belief than trust at first, I think, in this case. Does she trust you? I trust you even though you used capitol letters in your last sentence. ("the boy doth protest too much methinks") (seriously...I believe you. Ask her. Then ask me. I'll meet your friends. What do I have to lose? When shall I come over? What shall I bring?)
Several years ago, I became friends with one of the OA (Inglewood, CA) alumni. I won't say which one it was, but she was one of the non-Koreans. I liked her a lot, and even dug her mom, who the Fountains of Wayne surely would have approved of-she was actually even hotter than daughter. But it's hard to have sex with someone, and take them out to dinner after work if she's not your girlfriend. At some point in time you must demarcate or compartmentalize the relationship, otherwise it's just going to cause you big trouble in the end.
If you dig being naked with her that much, why not ask her out on a date instead? You might be surprised at her response. That's what you really want, isn't it?
I have two provider friends who I see both professionally and personally. It's not strange at all. The trick is honesty and open communication. If you want to just hang out, ask her. The worst she can say is no. If you want some personal time, schedule it. If you want to combine the two, discuss it and work out the terms. Be adults about it.
It's really not all that difficult. But you have to remember, that no matter how hard you might fall for her, you met her in the biz and if you cannot reconcile that or are prone to jealousy etc., do yourself are her a favor, let that part of your life stand alone. I was able to do it, but it was my 'provider' friend who couldn't walk the walk... we are still friends today, but she wanted me to be the excuse that she walked away from the biz; I didn't think that was a good enough reason and while it hurt her feelings at first, somehow we got past it... She is married now with two great kids and the SO is cool with her past... 'nuf said.
Good.. I guess this means she'll have to know my real name after this. And what do I tell my friends if they ask how I know her? Maybe we can figure that out together beforehand? Cos if I tell them she's my massage therapist, they're probably gonna think "she jacks him off for $$$" (that's bad)
it's probably a good idea if you know each other's real names. It helps in the whole credibility department. You need to be careful if you're going to establish a false backstory. It's probably not a good idea, as you both have to care for and feed it. KISS - keep it simple, stupid. Just say you met at the gym, mall, grocery store, or whatever.
As soon as your friends find out what she does it's over. She is a provider and the relationship you have is between you and her. Once you introduce her into your "real" world, it will never be the same and it will become really messy. Secrets are really hard to keep quiet, and eventually your friends will find out. No matter how much you know or trust your friends, some shit will happen and one of them is likely to try something stupid. If she quits, then it's a piece of cake.