This "hobby" can be exhilarating one day and humbling the next. I do not post reviews EVER and I do believe that has an impact on my experiences, good and bad. My favorite thing about the "hobby" is the interaction on the boards and the sometimes hilarious reviews. Thanks to all the regular posters and reviewers for the great entertainment. I will miss that very much. I will miss the great ladies I have met even more
Sojourner
I mean it's common to see our favorite lady providers retire. How about hobbyist?
I've seen an interesting quote here:
"You can check out anytime you like, but you can never leave" Hotel California song.
Does that theme only apply to hobbyist? or are providers haunted by that song as well?
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Possible...
My contract expires in three months....
in the process of renegotiating.
Cheers!
Yes, in fact I have retired from seeing providers singly because I recently married. The good news is my new wife is interested in threesomes.
I'm 65 and still going strong!!
I only participate in this because of my inability to have a love/romantic/intimate relationship with a woman, and not as a "hobby". Since I've never had a relationship like this, I have never been in the position to take a woman I cared about for granted, when straying outside the relationship in any capacity might become a tempting option.
I want to believe that if I ever did find that special relationship, I would not cheat on her in any way. I would stop seeing escorts if that relationship ever entered my life. That would be the only way I would "retire". If that relationship never materializes, my life will consist of seeing escorts whenever circumstances allow me to do so.
I, too, am in this mostly because of a lack of opportunity in "real life," and so I can readily imagine retiring from the hobby if the right relationship came along. I don't think it would take the same form as what you've described as imagining for yourself, but it's still in a similar ballpark. I pay for it because I have to, and would love to put the money to different use.
and so this is how I find enjoyment. If I ever marry -- yes, without question I'll be totally true to her.
Only to find myself back in, at full vigor due to a change in my social situation. Once one learns how easy it is to have your itch scratched it's only natural to scratch it whenever the need be.
CTToI.
"Once one learns how easy it is to have your itch scratched it's only natural to scratch it whenever the need be."
That's not necessarily true. I recently moved to the small-town capital of a Dixie state, and simply can't find the outlets. I am considering driving the three-plus hours to Memphis just for an overnight simply to have that itch scratched. Pick up an Elvis flyer, eat breakfast at a Stuckey's or a Waffle House along the Interstate on the way home -- heh, my booming Saturday night!
Not to leave out any other deserving providers, but until I've had an overnight fivesome with Sedona, Michelle, Ciara, and Nicole... No.
Absolutely. I didn't hobby until my marriage ended. If I was in another serious committed relationship it would have to stop. Or I'd have to find a relationship that would support it. I supposed it's possible, but I'm not looking for it or sure. Till then, I'm having fun.
I don't believe in retirement, period. I reject it as the stupidest notion in Western Civilization. The paradox of it is expressed with nursing homes.
I have but one plan about retirement in general: Death.
/Zin
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I don't consider old age to be a matter of the years I've been around. If I get to be 100 and I'm healthy and can pull my weight, I'm not old. There's no cut off point for me in terms of years.
My body and mind will age. More and more things will break. I will dimnish and become sicker and more in pain. It will get more expensive to keep me going. The capacity to feel pleasure will probably pass away, and it's impossible to feel happiness after a certain point. Worse, it gets impossible to contribute to anyone else's happiness.
If I don't die before this gets to be absurd, I certainly will take myself out afterward.
BTW, I don't think society or families should impose this. It's also not my only plan for life that I'm obsessed over. It's the choice I make for myself.
/Zin
Well, if anybody has, is in the midst or is planning to soon they wouldn't be monitoring this board to respond so I guess it's a loaded question....
I am seriuosly thinking of giving the hooby a rest- perhaps permanently. The recent economy and my very real guilt feeling about my beautiful SO are making me re-think my hobby implulse.
Sessions cost so much that if they are not awesome, I feel ripped off. Time with the SO is spectacular and without fees.
Luckily I likie Massages, so cost is less and other value (the massage) helps, but if I want a bbbbJ as the crescendo, I really have to do homework....
Of course , if a couple of Software/Networking Co's would get of their ass and engage some of my co's services- I might have a different tune for you ....
I'm not sure I will ever be able to stuff the demons back in the box.
This "hobby" can be exhilarating one day and humbling the next. I do not post reviews EVER and I do believe that has an impact on my experiences, good and bad. My favorite thing about the "hobby" is the interaction on the boards and the sometimes hilarious reviews. Thanks to all the regular posters and reviewers for the great entertainment. I will miss that very much. I will miss the great ladies I have met even more
Sojourner
Have retired several times but keep falling off the wagon.