Thanks for the help. I apologize for the novel but oddly enough on another site I posted a barebones "I'm a virgin and want to have with a escort" thread and was basically given the exact opposite advice. That at my age there are no shortage of "civi girls" and that I would be doing myself a disservice as whatever confidence and experience I gain from this would not translate into the dating world. I assumed if I gave more information here it would have been beneficial to actually getting assistance instead of "hit the gym, fake it til you make it, approach and get rejected by 10 girls today, etc..." I assumed wrong, again I apologize for anyone that wasted their time reading the novel.

Next, I didn't actually tell her anything yet. Just that "I had never done this before". I never said I was a virgin and didn't plan on giving her my above life story. I posted it here because I was expecting if I didn't I'd get the same advice from people who were able to get women in their 20's... I will send her an email with the basically what you wrote above but the isn't the fact that she is talking about her donation rates and the fact I am mentioning I'm a virgin pretty much obvious sexual discussion that could be used as a "trail"? If I wait til I meet her and after I pay to reveal my inexperience then she may not be comfortable. It says she is beginner friendly on her site but I have a feeling that beginner means new to the hobby, not new to sex in general...