Pick up condoms?!
NOT prepared isn't a situation I want to explore.
Just last week I scheduled some time with a lady who had a single review here. I setup the session via text and told her I would call when I arrived for directions to her place. I was almost to her location when I received a text from her asking me to pick up condoms.
I’m always very careful when setting up a session with a lady I haven’t seen before by only talking about what I’m going to pay for how much of her time and never ever mentioning anything relating to sex. If there was indeed a police offer on the other end wouldn’t agreeing to pick up condoms imply that sex was what I was actually paying for? Would a jury see it that way? Also for me at least, a provider asking me to pick up condoms is akin to a plumber showing up at my place and asking to borrow a wrench. Ultimately this is a business transaction and if a lady isn’t ready then that’s a red flag for me on another level as well.
Needless to say I immediately canceled the session and after explaining why I was told that I was overly paranoid. Sorry sister that’s the way it is while our city’s finest make life in the hobby dangerous for all involved.
Over the last 7 years I’ve been in the hobby I’ve been asked to pick up things like drinks (soda), cigarettes and more often than anything else, condoms. While I’m always very friendly and polite to the ladies I see (the sex is always better when you are) I’m paying them for the “girlfriend” experience. What I’m not paying for is to be treated like a boyfriend by asking me to go pick something up for them.
I suppose my question is twofold. Could a provider asking her client to pick up condoms be enough for a conviction of solicitation and do other hobbyists find it annoying when a lady who you’ve never seen before asks you to run to the store for her
In years of hobbying I've never had a provider ask me to bring her anything, especially covers. If you stick to the tried and true ladies you won't have these issues...IMHO
I believe the ladies of class know how and what to provide. I have in the past been asked if there was something I would like etc. I have also asked gents if I could bring drinks etc since often they are in from town and no time to get things. Most higher end ladies are very "supplied" You may want to give one on or two of them a chance. 
Thanks for your input grey. I've seen higher end ladies and while the vast majority were very nice the wost experience I've had in the hobby was with a 400hr lady. I'm assuming I caught her on a horrible day but nonetheless I paid 400 for a terrible time. I actually had one of the higher end ladies ask me to pick something up but only just one.
Everyone in the hobby is looking for different things and for me personally the actual physical act with a 300hr and up lady never actually equated to a better experience for me then with a 200hr lady. A really nice room and candles just didn't justify the extra I was spending. Of course that's my personal preference and I realize others appreciate the difference. To each their own.
Well gym define tried and true. I've had both good and some very bad experiences with well reviewed ladies here so having several good reviews isn't always a guaranty of getting a quality experience from a provider. Also I've found some incredible gems by taking a chance on a new lady. The only thing that's consistent with this hobby is that there are absolutely no guarantees. My biggest concern was that if I had agreed to pick up condoms then I was essentially pleading guilty before I even arrived.
I have picked up condoms once for a very established lady because she simply ran out and even went shopping with a different lady for condoms (female condoms) to try them out.
Each time I had no problem with it but they were ladies that I knew and was very comfortable with.
I also bring drinks and food to Super bowl parties that I'm invited too also, just good manners I think.
Use your head, know who your dealing with.
I would have done the same thing.
LE could have been involved. Regardless, any PRO would never rely on you to bring the most important gift.
And never rely on a PRO having them. Regardless bring your own, just to CYA........
OH MY!......Your just so perfect aren't you................
The phrase "girlfriend experience" always cracks me up, and your statement, "What I’m not paying for is to be treated like a boyfriend by asking me to go pick something up for them." is just downright funny (to me, I'm not laughing AT you, just quietly to myself).
"Girlfriend experience" seems like that IS what you'd be doing, along with taking out the trash, picking up dry cleaning, etc., all while NOT being guaranteed of any fun under the covers, isn't that what "girlfriend" means to most* of the world? We all want a PartyGirl Experience, not a GFE. ;o)
But yeah, if it's the first time you've met, a good girl shouldn't ask for that kind of favor. (Of course, sometimes even a good girl grabs the wrong bag and just assumed she had 'em...) Always go with your gut on a first date.
(*most, not all)
Probably would have bolted anyway, but...In a text? No thanks.
Just last week, had a provider guide me to her in call and I was in the parking lot awaiting the room number when I got a text if I could pick up some condoms for her…a whole box. It didn't feel write so I texted back, "Sure, do you need tampons too?" And then I drove home.
Correct move there. "RUN don't walk".
IMO, LE, would not have sufficient evidence for a conviction charge of soliciting. I am reasonably certain that to secure a conviction Le would need the following;
They would need to have an offer and acceptance for services to be performed. They would try to have a specific act to be determined. "GFE" would not meet the test of sufficient. A GFE could mean a courtship pre sex like the old days. I do not think it is reasonable to reject a lady for asking you to stop and shop for her. It may irritate me and I may decline however, many people think that all providers are well healed financially and that is simply not true. If you are looking for a "Red Light Special" you may have to learn to deal with some unusual circumstances. I would not recommend you be hateful or rude to any provider. You pay for what you get. The provider you choose will make the difference!
If you prefer to have a favorable experience, you may want to consider other providers that have a number of positive reviews that are professional and organized. Reviews are a huge advantage for us hobbyist. The reviews definitely help to avoid disappointments and misunderstandings.
We are all so fortunate to have many of the finest providers in the country here in Az. You must decide, what level of perfection for your GFE experience can you afford? Good Luck!!
Seems like an odd request from someone who should have everything prepared.
I would have said no thanks also
Pick up condoms?!
NOT prepared isn't a situation I want to explore.
however, if I'm headed to a hotel or motel and its late at night, I will ask if there is anything she'd like that I can pick up on the way?
Deprived
Ew! Sloppy seconds!
Glad you canceled!
What other time would she have run out of them if not before he arrived. LOL!!
Glad you canceled!
