I've read everything there is to read re: screening here at TER, and subscribe to a VIP membership.  I am also verified at P411. At this point, I have no references.  I've been in contact with several well -reviewed providers. My experience thus far suggests that it is possible to meet some of these ladies w/out references so long as I give up my real name and occupation.  Is this just insane, or have some of you done it? I can't imagine that a highly rated lady here with multiple reviews (at least 20+ in all cases) would risk outing a client, as she would be reported on the boards immediately.  Sort of like mutually assured destruction between U.S. and Russia's nuclear weapons...

Thanks in advance for helpful suggestions