Posted By: Happyjensen
I have been hobbying for a year and half now since my separation from my SO, and so far it has been great.  I have only really seen a few ladies (7 to be exact and 4 of them just last month) and so far the experience of hobbying is everything I have expected to be.  Different beautiful ladies and none of the crap from marriage.  
The only confusion that I have now is a provider that I see regularly.  I have been seeing her regularly twice a month since my first visit, but lately due to her schedule, i.e., cancellations, reschedulings, and even no show (not answering after I arrived at incall) at one of agreed time, I started seeing other ladies instead of her regularly.  I was using her as a reference, but in the last visit I had with her two days ago, she asked me not to use her as a reference again.  I thought that was strange, but I didn't ask her why.  Since I am fairly new to hobbying, is there some sort of hobbying ettiquete that I missed?