I would have to say, it depends on the lady. Keep in mind, a majority of hobbyists are older then 40. If a lady can't find common ground and enjoyment with much older gentlemen she won't be around for very long. I'm not sure who started the rumor that younger escorts only see young hot studs. My advise to you is to read the reviews, and a true courtesan never has to label herself as that.

....... if someone interests you it wouldn't hurt to contact them to gauge their personalities of their reviews aren't enough. Some are more receptive to it than others. Maybe see some of their board/site history if they have any.  I like to think of myself as a smart cookie and mature enough not just for my age range but in general...... that might not matter at all to some anyways since i'm a "baby" to them anyways and won't bother no matter what until i'm at least 30 but I'm probably not going to be around providing that long.

IMO, actually it's USUALLY or more-so the pursuer (hobbyist) with the hangup about age (especially those under 30 LET ALONE under 25 lol) not the other way around.  I'm extremely comfortable being around men and women 20, 30 and 40 yrs older than me because i'm simply comfortable with myself. So would I be weird-ed out by someone old enough to be my dad (or grandfather) not even close.  

BUT either wait until you feel different and really want TOFTT so-to-speak even though the "team" is just you with one of these under 25 ladies with these amazing reviews that interest you or stick to 30+ and not jump into what's not comfortable for you.

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totally understand....but sometimes.....

I have shared all those feelings and resrvations at times..... lusting for a lady young enough to be my daughter..... But sometimes....when viewing a smoking hot lass with a smoldering review.... one just has to give in...... its 50/50 we will both enjoy but 100% one of us will ........ Remember.... you paid... they accepted.... quid pro quo... Be a gentleman and just enjoy... and remember.

...I was past 55. I have seen providers ranging from 22 yrs old to 50 yrs old. I had no difficulties finding something to talk about with the ladies under 25. If they were going/had been to college we talked about college. We talked generally about where are you from, how did you get to here. (Here being the state we were in.) I like all kinds of music so we talked about music even if I hadn't heard about some they liked it gave me something to check out. I found some I really liked.

Are they mature enough to make a decision to do this? If not they won't be around very long and won't fit the well reviewed description that is recommended for newbies to see.

In regard to how they might feel about there being a 30+ year age difference, my experience so far has been it's not an issue. It's us older guys that hobby for the most part and if they have been escorting for at least a few months they will have seen plenty of older guys.

As stated above Newbies are always advised to see well reviewed providers and many of the reviewers should be guys with lots of reviews. There are plenty of young providers that fit this description so you can be assured they are accustomed to seeing someone your age. it won't weird them out.

I'll will mention here the YMMV factor that goes with everything in the hobby. All that I said above is true but there could be the exception. Doing your research including back channel about any provider you want to see will reduce the YMMV factor with an under 25 provider.

I do have my own personal age limit on providers I will see. I won't see any providers that are under 21.