Regarding what he did to you, your doing the right thing by having your lawyer get in contact with him.  Even if you don't press any charges you are putting a scare into him which is a good start.

I doubt you could have your lawyer press charges if you see him hobbying again.  What exactly will you press charges for? Unless your in the room you don't have any evidence of him hobbying or him committing any other crime. Maybe if enough ladies pulled together you could all press charges against him for assault and battery. But the conditions of how each of you met this guy will come into question. Your lawyer might be able to arraign for immunity for the ladies in exchange for their testimony..............but I'm not a lawyer so I'll stop dispensing legal advice now  This is just my 2 cents.

You definately need to spread the word amongst the hobby community. Post on the local boards, give his real info to the local mod and have him/her post on the subject so that ladies can contact the Mod to be informed of who the dirt bag is. You should really do the same on the national boards too to get the word out to traveling ladies. This will help minimize his chances of ever getting an appt again. The hobbying community at large doesn't take kindly to guys like this either. Hobbiest and providers can make his life miserable and in effect, drive him out of Dodge. But they can't do it if they don't know the details and who he is!

I am very sorry to hear that this happened to you and the other ladies you contacted. I applaud you for calling him and telling him the consequences of his actions. Let's hope that this will serve as a "wake up call" for him, and that he will seek help for his sickness.

I would be in favor of banning known abusers from TER and other similar sites.

By the way, you are so much more attractive than his review indicates!

This is just one more reminder...

of the fact that the ladies tke the biggest chances with this profession, and that the risks they take more than warrant their needs for screening (even if in this case it may not have helped much).

As if misguided LE and society wasn't enough (please, save us from ourselves!), a woman has to deal with losers like this jerk. Any man who would do something like this to a woman who is making her most intimate self vulnerable to him needs to be taken out of society.  He makes me ashamed of my gender.

Anony, I myself think you should send Guido to his house.  Sauce for the goose, and he might really hurt the next one.

He should be banned, tarred and feathered,and ran out of TER on a rail....

then I'll show him what it's like to get beat. I cannot stand abusive men!

Hugs,
Ciara

The best advice is to contact an attorney asap, and to review your options.

The worst advice is to cause bodily harm to the aforementioned "hobbyist", either by yourself or a third party. This can go wrong in so many different ways, that it's best to just to fantasize about it. For example, suppose while you're administering this lesson, the "hobbyist" has the poor grace to die on you. Then you're looking at a possible murder rap. Suppose you engage a third-party "guido", and the "hobbyist" sustains grave injuries and/or dies. Then you could be charged with conspiracy. Suppose further that your friend "guido" decides that he wants to go 'partners' with your escort business (illustrated in the Sopranos), and blackmails you with this conspiracy.

And as for training in the martial arts...the first thing they should teach you is to beware of overconfidence. Usually, the best advice is to run away screaming 'fire', if at all possible. Unless you're a student of that illustrious grandmaster George W., violence is what you resort to when everything else fails.

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PM us if you need to tell us his name, but every provider out there should know not to see this guy.

Hugs,
Ciara

No charge. I even offer parking.

I need to go practice my Christopher Walken smile now.