comfort level

congratulations..you have attained the maximum comfort level with a provider that most of us just dream about..

Good setup, maybe I'm old fashioned, but I enjoy sex a lot more with a lady i've established a friendship with.  Had all the variety and quickies I could want back in my hippie days, free love and all.

This would not work for many situations.   I know she is not on a tight schedule usually.  I let her know, I'm bring lunch...  she says OK.  I hit the market just off the highway.  Cost is about 25-30$ each time.  A pittance.  

I don't know how she is making ends meet...  her other business isn't exactly booming...  I don't feel ike I'm paying for play.  On occasion, I have just gifted her cash equivelents without a meeting.   She has never asked me to come for a session.  She will occasionally check on me...  it might be a hint, but subtile.

There's at least another meal for her with the food...  which she carefully packs up.  The cash is the same as I would pay for an hour elsewhere.  Very often, she leaves at the same time as I, to make a bank deposit or pay a bill.  She is a nice person.   I think she's been treated hard.    

I'm not hunk or stud anymore though I prefer to give as good as I get.  She once told me she NEVER O's with clients but IF I am a client, I have proven that wrong.  (DATY)  

Realistically, if I should suddenly find myself single again...  we could never live together...   but this is a nice time for both of us, I think.

I hope that it continues!

...I'm on a first name basis with a couple of my favorite gents. I see them on a regular basis. We talk about our families, our experiences, our fantasies... We often enjoy a meal or a drink together. We ALWAYS hug and cuddle. Sometimes we just sit, talk, relax....

The BFE is my most favorite man to meet. And I do my very best to show them!!

Kisses,
Marie in Asheville

He drives an hour and a half to see me
Last Thursday he arrived at 8pm
The 2 dogs greet him like he's their long lost friend.
I'm cooking dinner for two.  He fixes a drink and relaxes after a long days work and drive.
After dinner he clears the table and cleans up and then takes a shower.  The dogs need their walk and a lil more relaxing in front of the TV. We are leaving in the morning for a rafting trip. The envelope is on the counter as we make our way to the bedroom. Every day we are together there is good morning sex and good evening sex and in between it is hand holding, kisses, shopping, sharing meals, conversation and mutual enjoyment. He is my BFE

I have a special friend like this.

If I stopped seeing all clients tomorrow, I would still see him. He holds a special place in my heart. You're right, it defies all definition. I just enjoy it for what it is, and try not to put a label on it. We haven't got to the real name point yet, but he knows A LOT about me that I normally don't share.

For well over 10 years I had a special relationship (developed over time) with a Asian FBSM provider in Scottsdale.  She gave an awesome massage. We exchanged gifts at times..... I sent flowers on important days.... We occasionaly went to dinner..... had drinks if she wasn't booked.  I always let her know when i was coming in... she always cleared her time... I always left the envelope.....and once she took a trip with me.  I lost her a couple years ago in a freak accident.... Its left a void that I haven't been able to replace...

Luckily I can say that I also have a great guy so I don't have to ask for a donation! Hope to meet you all in Scottsdale this next week!  Kalinasandiego