"take charge" and get ofter the hard 'put it too em' sex?
I sometimes get the idea from woman that with all the grip about men....woman like men to be decisive, and most woman love a good hard pounding towards the end of sex.
Being a large man of girth, I am very aware of how my partner feels. Last thing I ever want to do is to hurt her, or cause her discomfort. I do ask because I really like the small girls, and I'm a "very big boy". If I ask them if they are ok, or they are not being hurt...I usually hear....."O God yes, harder....fuck me harder.....". At that point...its green lite all the way baby...and the general reports for combat duty! I love the look on her face as I start up the pace that usually leads to me going for a pop......her eyes buldge out...her mouth forms a O and the look on her face is one of 'Damn that feels soooooooo good....yes thats the spot.........oooooooooooooooooooo". (grin/wink)
I take it that most woman really like a man to not ask quesitons too much....and just take charge? Woman like a man that is self-assured with sex ........
Yes/No?????
Before I do this, I generally say something like "I'd like to go fast and hard for a while now. Are you OK with that?"
Is this the way you would like the question asked? Would you rather he ask it in a different way? Would you rather he not ask at all? Would you rather he never do it at all? Do you ever like it?
Lots of questions, and obviously looking for answers.
Thanks.
Oh how I hate boredom!! Yes....Yes....Yes!!!!! I'm a woman who loves it fast and hard.......Yee Haw!!!
Actually, I enjoy a good pound cake now and then, and Ciara can verify that right now. We're making some fudge brownies and a few of those . . . um . . . well . . . Werther's Originals. Wink!
Hugs to all!
Once I'm worked up for the *pounding* effect, you'll know it's time.
If you were with me, you might not get a chance to ask!
I'd already be moaning, "Give it to me! Make me take it!"
I say that a lot... and mean it every damn time.
Just gotta watch out for the big boys because I'm such a tender & young thing
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OMG, CiCi... you're on to me! Heh, heh, heh again.
I think you must be an insomniac as well. :P
Gosh, I'm so transparent! Have I NO secrets left?
I've learned that the best encounters have tenderness and wildness in them, at different times. Most people, men and women, could really learn something from slowing all sex acts waaaaay down initially. And, yes, Cindy's correct. When a lady wants a really intense pounding, you won't have to ask....you'll know.
Jacksonlips
I certainly seem to be in sync when the lady wants it, or is ready.. Except when I have the hiccups-Then the pounding gets kinda weird (not)
Enjoy!.
FH
I think it's sweet of you to ask if she is okay with it! However, I never need to be asked....I love it that way....
But, I think the proper thing is to ask the lady if she is all right with it, as not all of the ladies like it like that. Or better yet, after you are verified and screened, tell her what your desires are....that always works with me!
Hugs,
Vanessa Sue
Damn, this shit is interesting. I can't seem to leave.
Okay, I don't like tentative men who ask too many questions. All "um, um, can I kiss you now? Can I...?" And I luv fast hard sex. I don't think I'm alone in that view...
Just go at it. Don't worry, if I'm uncomfortable, I'll tell you.
"take charge" and get ofter the hard 'put it too em' sex?
I sometimes get the idea from woman that with all the grip about men....woman like men to be decisive, and most woman love a good hard pounding towards the end of sex.
Being a large man of girth, I am very aware of how my partner feels. Last thing I ever want to do is to hurt her, or cause her discomfort. I do ask because I really like the small girls, and I'm a "very big boy". If I ask them if they are ok, or they are not being hurt...I usually hear....."O God yes, harder....fuck me harder.....". At that point...its green lite all the way baby...and the general reports for combat duty! I love the look on her face as I start up the pace that usually leads to me going for a pop......her eyes buldge out...her mouth forms a O and the look on her face is one of 'Damn that feels soooooooo good....yes thats the spot.........oooooooooooooooooooo". (grin/wink)
I take it that most woman really like a man to not ask quesitons too much....and just take charge? Woman like a man that is self-assured with sex ........
Yes/No?????
Yes, I love a man to just take charge. I have a thing for decisive men. I mean, it's fine if we're having a conversation and you ask questions. But if we're having sex, too many questions can kill the mood. I'll switch positions or tell you if it hurts.
It's great for the customers to care and make us really enjoy our profession. And I can enjoy it so much more without the awkward tentativeness. Of course, I have ways to alleviate that. But if you know how to keep the mood on and keep me horny, so much the better.
Kisses
I too can be a little more vigorous at times, and in any position. However, I have found that this is usually enjoyable to both provided that you have gradually worked into it with plenty of arousal, desire, and maybe a good lube. I have never found it necessary to ask, but you certainly want to pay attention to her response. If it is painful for her, she will let you know, although some girls are too passive or submissive to say so right away. If I get the feeling she is uncomfortable then I will ask if I'm being to rough.
... once again I realize that communication is key to being comfortable with each other
best regards, mr.man
You can gauge by their reaction. If the lady responds well to your gradual increase in pace you can keep the ball rolling and monitor her reactions. If she's getting jiggy with it as you get faster and faster keep on building your momentum. Work your way up obviously, don't go from zero to gangbusters.
If for some reason you don't notice any positive reactions to your increased pace, just ask her. Or, just go for it, it's not like your doing something that's taboo or "against the rules".
Most ladies love doggie, and most like it hard too.
Happy humping!
"Are you okay? Is it too hard?" Usually I'll let someone know if it hurts.
Hugs,
Ciara