you may find that some providers can verify you by other means.  I know that Sierra can do this somehow with a little personal information and without compromising your security and there are probably others.

Of course it helps to have references.  But we all have to start somewhere right?  All these ladies do what works for them, and I would not suggest that they should drop any particular requirement that makes them comfortable in meeting you, but if the ladies you've contacted won't budge on the reference issue you may want to try some others.

I would say most hobbyists in Las Vegas are visitors to Las Vegas. If you have no references, many providers will want to see your out of state driver's license, plane tickets/boarding passes, utilitly bills (i.e. cable, local phone, electicity) and/or business card.

The first time I played in Las Vegas (in 2000), I saw 2 of Las Vegas's most popular providers. Neither provider asked for a provider reference or much personal info. I think it helped that I called and talked to both ladies on setting up my appointments.

I know that I am not a local, but I run into the idsue quit efrequently as a provider in Phoenix. Try enrolling with a company such as Secret Keeper or Room Service 2000. Both can be found on the internet and they take your information, for a small fee of course. They assign you a number and when you call a provider you simply give her the number and your location instead of all your personal info. She will call the number provided to her by the service and enter your code. She will be called back and told if you are an okay client or not. It does taqke some time to enroll, however you would probably never need to release your personal info again so you could gain annominity. Just a thought...