Depends on the lady and the situation.
Its no longer a deal breaker for me.
What i like more than anything is when the provider ask for it because its something she really enjoys...that takes it to a whole new level for me.It does nothing for me.
I luv licking the lady's buttholes.
Its not like you're actually here to work, Ms I am writing a novel based on my limited hobby experience. Bye Felicia
There is just so much that can go wrong with anal. I would never put myself in such a vulnerable position with a stranger. At anytime he could decide to do it porn star style and pound me hard, and damage me in some way. And a condom adds so much friction, it could easily cause tears. I enjoy anal, and with a gentle partner it can be a very intimate act..but it is not something I would ever offer in this world.
I and others like me won't even bother considering a provider unless "Yes" shows under "Anal" in their profile's "services offered" menu.
Some providers enjoy it and some don't. A provider introduced me to anal on her own. She loves anal more than vaginal.
Lmao I'm sure that she's crying herself to sleep at night because you and other analizers do not select her.
Now, if I was on a date and the lady said SHE wanted it, then sure, I'd give it a go - but that has never happened.
For me, there are enough fun activities that both generally enjoy.
And I'm bigger than average, so that factors into my thinking on this too.
I prefer a rendezvous that may include anal sex - I like the idea it may be on the table. I recently had a date with a provider who offered it but said she didn't enjoy it - so we did not indulge. I have been with other providers who seem to be in a hurry to have anal sex. Both parties should enjoy it. Same thing with DT and gagging.
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Nor is it a precondition when deciding who to see. If that's an option on the menu, cool. If not, no big deal.
Now I know why I like you so much
The boards need pinata's...losing too many makes TER a very dull place.
No shit! Those that like the dookie dance can pass me up all they like, thanks : )
No offense to the ladies that choose to offer it, more power to them, but it bothers me none to get passed up because I don't. I get passed on and chosen, for many other reasons......Even then there are times when I know it is available but don't partake.
It is not one of the things on my deal breaker list.Well, damn. You got a point.
I used to hate pinata treatment, but... but... Sometimes people just BEG for it.Don't they? P.S. Haven't seen your buddy the chef lately... Hmmm.
This is kind of long, but hopefully, someone may get a good chuckle out of this, or at any rate learn something, because after I witnessed this, I really would hate for it to happen to ANYONE (not even my worst enemy...)
So, somewhere in the early 2000's, I had a (civvie) boyfriend, who tried to pretend he didn't want Greek at first.His friends filled me in on some of the websites he had been visiting...
(Something about gaping buttholes, lmao, wtf? Um, ok, that was a new one to me!!!) And one day he decided to request it. Me, being overly cautious and evasive (I was in my early 20's lol) I told him,
"Maybe on your birthday." And that put him off.
And the calendar rolled on by ... tick tock....
And low and behold, his birthday rolled around.
I asked him what he wanted for his birthday, and wouldn't you KNOW, of course he remembered....
Duh. Anywho, so we go into BCD activities, and proceed regularly to get started.
He must have been excited, because his whole energy was uber pumped up.
This guy was no minute man normally so, like I said, we started out with Mish, then some CG, and a little K9...
While he was in K9, he says, "Pull on my balls." I start laughing, he had never requested this before, so I gently stroked his sack, reaching between my legs as he was in and out. (Reaching as best I could, I am a shorty lol)
He says, "Pull harder."
And I try to grasp his balls, and wondering to myself, "Am I about to hurt him or what?!" SO finally... he asks me if I am ready for the trip to Greece....
So I exhale, calm myself, and told him to go ahead.
Plenty of lube, and plenty of FIA, and then ....
Well, everything went as it should. He didn't last too long like that!
So I am thinking, "Ok well I don't hurt too bad. I guess that wasn't as bad as I thought." So this is where it gets interesting lol A couple days later, he started complaining about his balls (or rather one in particular) hurting.
I am thinking that maybe I tore something inside.... I am cussing myself out mentally.
I feel really really guilty. And then the ball starts to swell.
And keeps swelling.
24 hours later, he has a super swollen testicle.
I don't mean a little, like I thought this poor ball was on steroids and trying to break out the sack. So..... we both jointly agree it's time to go to the E.R. So in we go, I am holding his hand, tears in my eyes, I know in my heart at that point, surely I must have truly hurt him, physically. So in we go, they run a plethora of tests, and the physician (to my utter humor, is a little "sweet" gay as hell man) walks in and asks him,
"Well Sir, we have some results for you.... Are you sure you want her in here?" My eyebrows hit my hairline in shock, wondering why the Dr. would even ask that! Then it hits me, maybe something that will tip me off to something, perhaps, that I didn't know about???!! I look him in the eyes, and he knows I am NOT playing, and he nods to me,
"Yes, Dr., this is my girlfriend, she will know either way, so it's ok." And the Dr. looks at his clip-board, and starts his diagnosis...
"Well, sir, what you have is a severe bacterial infection in your testicle, the type of bacteria that is found in the intestines and is primarily a culprit for this type of infection when you have unprotected anal sex! There's over 20 million strains of bacteria in the colon. If you are going to do that, you MUST wear protection. " And he winks at my boyfriend, and looks at me, as if I were going to explode.... Instead, I died laughing....
"I told you.... I tried to put you off, but you wanted it ANYWAYS. So happy birthday Mr. I want some ass." I was so relieved and giddy that it wasn't ME who had hurt him, or his testicle rather (hey that could be some permanent damage, ya know?) but it was his need for a trip to Greece that put him down and into a lot of pain. So, if you all do like to go to Greece.... At least strap up! As for me: Long story short, I haven't been back to Greece since.
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Perhaps Corrine/JLS/Galloping Gourmet retired? Nah...there was a sighting just a day ago.
I do miss my friend Char however. She was a hootI used to hate pinata treatment, but... but... Sometimes people just BEG for it.
Don't they?
P.S. Haven't seen your buddy the chef lately... Hmmm.
It is usually clear and the price comes out the same. If the standard rate is say $300 in an area those who include Anal will either ask for an additional $50 or $100 fee or their base price will be $350 or $400. If a hobbyist wants anal, he know he will usually have to pay extra in the base price or a additional fee.
s provoked a question of my own.
Shouldn't your web design and rates solely be based on what you're comfortable offering, and have nothing to do with a hobbyist's thoughts??? Let's say you choose to provide anal, then will you come back and ask thoughts on creampies? BBBJ? Duos? Pubic hair? It doesn't really matter, some hobbyists want it, some don't, that can be said with any service we choose to provide. There will be hobbyists that choose you or pass on you regardless of anal...I know what TER is for, that's why I'm asking you my questions : ))) Your post got me thinking:
What if you have an influx of clientele that want creampies? Will their thoughts persuade you to offer a service that you normally would not be comfortable with? If it pleases the hobbyist as you say??? Why should offering anal be up to the popular opinion rather than your own personal comfort level? I'm sure the majority of hobbyists would vote YES for BBFS, but that's not something any reputable provider would consider, let alone leave up to the TER hobbyists thoughts or pleasure level... Agreed there's no problem asking TER hobbyists a question, I just don't see how that translates into what services you're comfortable providing or not providing. Isn't it simply a personal comfort level? The only reason I bring up creampies is because where does it end? Will you poll the hobbyists about every single service out there? Will that really dictate what you offer? My point being whether you offer anal or not someone will still pass you up based on something else you do or don't do as you can't please 100% of the people 100% of the time. Just asking because I truly want to understand your reasoning. I remember reading a post of yours about a guy gagging one of your friends with his penis until she got ill and you were disgusted that some providers let hobbyists make them do stuff they really don't want to. If you don't want to do anal, but only end up offering it to please the hobbyist, how is that any different? We all want to please our hobbyists, and I know I get passed on for not offering anal, more power to the girls that choose to do it, but I please based on my comfort level, not their demands...make sense?I want to please hobbyists, and I've found the best way to do it...is by knowing their thoughts, pertaining to ALL matters.
And, BTW Alexandra, I don't offer "creampies" and I'm surprised you'd even mention it.
This provoked a question of my own.
Shouldn't your web design and rates solely be based on what you're comfortable offering, and have nothing to do with a hobbyist's thoughts??? Let's say you choose to provide anal, then will you come back and ask thoughts on creampies? BBBJ? Duos? Pubic hair? It doesn't really matter, some hobbyists want it, some don't, that can be said with any service we choose to provide. There will be hobbyists that choose you or pass on you regardless of anal...
and yes, on a few occasions I've paid an extra C note or two for the trip to Greece.
but if a guy has a small enough cock and willing to pay $$$$ extra, I might.
So, for those of you that do book a rendezvous, that includes anal sex, do you mind paying an additional amount for this service?
I have no interest in reading your reviews as I'm not interested in being a client.
I'd love to do the whole strap on thing, since I REALLY, like REALLY, like to do that, but since you claim to be penniless, I'm doubting you should splurge on my services. BTW, I was in no way riding you or being inflammatory. I was simply, truly trying to understand from your own wording where you were trying to go with this thread. Now I see, absolutely nowhere...you said in your own words you asked about anal while designing a website, and then said you wanted to please the crowd, it just seemed so contradictory to your post about your friend and the crowd dictating services offered, that's all. I just wanted to understand it. But then you had to go and get rude with me. I never really commented on all of the posts about you being nuts and a drama queen, or even the one on here begging you to just go away, but after I merely asked a very curious question, you talk to me like an asshole. Now I can see why so many people don't like you. I'm sorry, that's sad : ( If you truly love anal, and are comfortable offering it, do so. Why does it matter here who likes it and who doesn't unless your post was really a 'look at me I'm back' in disguise. Just slap anal up on your site & take those dicks up the dookie hole already ; ) Good luck Robbin
You mean the 7 year old reviews? Who knows what has changed since then. Fair enough?
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I actually did extremely hard and fast and long anal today,
I been using ambesol now as my method to numb the area so I can take it really hard and fats.I like challenging myself and seeing if really huge ones can fit or not too.
guess every ones different.
I love being vulnerable with strangers personally. but . thats just me. abuse me, use me, show me a little pain even............................I am a wack a doo, but it works for me....! I have fun thats all i know . actually me and a repeat client today we filmed a porno and did rough anal he is very good looking in good shape with a ncie car, so i guess i enjoyed letting him man handle me more than usual clients, Did i mention he was asian? thats always a plus, got a thing for asian guys,
Lady, you are ATE THE FUCK UP!!! I have never, ever PM'ed you. Ever. Please, please produce the PM you lying ass bitch. At least email it to me. Something. When did I do this, BTW? Or are you confusing me with another Alexandra? Now you really have pissed me off. Congrats, as it's pretty difficult to do. Today was the first day I've ever even responded to a post concerning you, WTF would I have to PM you about? You haven't had a review in 6 years & I've only been around 15 months, even less than that on these boards, what in the flying fuck would I have to PM you about?!
Stalk you, hahaha! More like called your lying ass out and you didn't like it. It did start out very innocently on my end, but you got your panties in a wedge when I tripped you up on your own words. YOUR OWN WORDS!!! Stalk you?! Nobody wants to fuck your old ass, in any oriface, much less stalk you. You might be all of these things people say you are: crazy, drama queen, etc., but now I know you're a LIAR. And dishonesty is worse than anything to me. Let me tell you something about me because your fucking Alzheimer's obviously got you confusing me for someone else. If I had something to say to you, as I did, I ask it or say it publicly. I don't use an alias. I don't send nasty PM's, never have, never needed to. Why TER would even let you back on here after all of your book talk is beyond me. Why anyone would trust seeing you would really blow me away...This will be my last communication with you...leave me alone and go stalk another provider! I could care less what you think of me, and...I've now put you on my 'Ignore' list.
I'd love to do the whole strap on thing, since I REALLY, like REALLY, like to do that, but since you claim to be penniless, I'm doubting you should splurge on my services.
BTW, I was in no way riding you or being inflammatory. I was simply, truly trying to understand from your own wording where you were trying to go with this thread. Now I see, absolutely nowhere...you said in your own words you asked about anal while designing a website, and then said you wanted to please the crowd, it just seemed so contradictory to your post about your friend and the crowd dictating services offered, that's all. I just wanted to understand it. But then you had to go and get rude with me. I never really commented on all of the posts about you being nuts and a drama queen, or even the one on here begging you to just go away, but after I merely asked a very curious question, you talk to me like an asshole. Now I can see why so many people don't like you. I'm sorry, that's sad : (
If you truly love anal, and are comfortable offering it, do so. Why does it matter here who likes it and who doesn't unless your post was really a 'look at me I'm back' in disguise. Just slap anal up on your site & take those dicks up the dookie hole already ; )
Good luck Robbin
I said one thing to you, which was a very honest thing to say. Far from anything that requires "ignoring". One thing, one time. Not anything different than a post I already did that you got mad about.
If you are speaking about me, you seem pretty worked up for no reason. I have not "stalked" you or even responded nastily since that one time. I said what I had to say and that's it, one time. I am guessing the stalking remark was towards the other Alexandra but her responding isn't stalking by any means. I think you are getting several of us mixed up and thrown into one barrel and getting mad at us all. Maybe you weren't even referring to me, there are a few of us named Alexandra.This will be my last communication with you...leave me alone and go stalk another provider! I could care less what you think of me, and...I've now put you on my 'Ignore' list.
I'd love to do the whole strap on thing, since I REALLY, like REALLY, like to do that, but since you claim to be penniless, I'm doubting you should splurge on my services.
BTW, I was in no way riding you or being inflammatory. I was simply, truly trying to understand from your own wording where you were trying to go with this thread. Now I see, absolutely nowhere...you said in your own words you asked about anal while designing a website, and then said you wanted to please the crowd, it just seemed so contradictory to your post about your friend and the crowd dictating services offered, that's all. I just wanted to understand it. But then you had to go and get rude with me. I never really commented on all of the posts about you being nuts and a drama queen, or even the one on here begging you to just go away, but after I merely asked a very curious question, you talk to me like an asshole. Now I can see why so many people don't like you. I'm sorry, that's sad : (
If you truly love anal, and are comfortable offering it, do so. Why does it matter here who likes it and who doesn't unless your post was really a 'look at me I'm back' in disguise. Just slap anal up on your site & take those dicks up the dookie hole already ; )
Good luck Robbin
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