realizing that communication is everything! I'm quite intuitive, but there are certainly occasions when I'm relieved to get an insight into the best way to make my suitor happy. Good for you, my friend!
Thank you for your contribution to my question!
Posted By: DWW I am just old enough for this board and have had to either have the lady finish me off manually or actually do it myself once simply because I became too stressed to even have her be able to help me. The cover seems to be a bigger issue for me the last few years as I seem to have lost some sensitivity - or maybe its all in my head simply because I ain't like I used to be. I
am not a very regular hobbist (but with many years of experience), so this has been a rather new issue for me the last 3 times I saw someone, which were spread out over about 20 months and covering some of my 59th year and now 60th. However, I would also have to admit that I have slowed down a good deal with my SO too. The last lady I saw in Atlanta was really great about it. I told her about this issue (first time I did that with a provider - she was a little older and I did not feel quite so self-conscience about it) and she just said - "Great - thanks for telling me. It is really nice when guys tell me what I need to do." She then proceeded to give me a great massage and finish me off oral and manual. The best thing is that I had an absolutely earth-shattering cum (and it wasn't even yesterday during the earthquake).
From now on - regardless of the provider's age - we will have the "talk" first about what I can and can't do which I think will reduce the stress on my part and hopefully help us both.