Been seeing ladies for about 6 months....then found a new lady, who called me a few days before our date. It automatically made things seem special. Made ME seem special.  And the date was an extension of the little extra she put into it.

I've always been impressed with those ladies who try to create a personal connection before a first date.

What frustrates me, however, is before the 2nd and 3rd.  The uniqueness and extra attention you receive before date #1 somehow disappears. Kinda puts you back in your place a bit.

That said.....what would REALLY impress me is a lady who does this each time. After all...we still pay the same rate, don't we? It would be nice to be appreciated as much on the subsequent dates as the first.

Just sayin......