a sexually deviant life as some would call it, that we also have to partake in everything else. Does not work that way. I know just as many providers and hobbyists who would not cheat if they were married, as I do those who would. Same goes for open and traditional relatiionships.

Just because a person does not want that type of life, does not mean they are judging another for their choices...always seems that way though. It's like saying because one parent only uses private schools that she is looking down on parents who use public ones...not the case.

Simply a choice each makes for their own life. If I wanted strange sex, I would never get married again..that's not what I want when I choose to leave this life. For others, this IS their lifestyle and they want that same sexual understanding in their own relationships. Takes all kinds, and there is no right or wrong.