I am pretty limited on who I get to see being so far away from big cities. But I read and see some of these women and think I might be just too overwhelmed to be with someone like that.
Several of the providers that post here would do that to me. Anybody else feel that way
and actually while there are a few pretty good looking women here, I can't think of but maybe a couple that would even rate a nine on the GaGa scale. Not that there aren't loads of very attractive women that are hookers, it's just that the vast majority aren't really "all that"
I am sorry to burst your bubble, but the chances of finding a woman THAT hot selling herself for a few hundred bucks an hour just really aren't that good.
Ladies, please don't take this the wrong way as I am VERY happy with the women I find here, on P 411, and elsewhere in hooker land. but intimidating??? Hardly.
GB2, you really need to get out more often.
but I relaxed and enjoyed myself immensely.
They had great grace and made me feel very accepted
I saw a girl a week ago that flat out was the hottest girl I have ever been with and oddly I find myself very intimidated by her.. Kind of strange that you asked this question.. I told her yesterday that she intimidated me.. I kind of thought that was strange.. Maybe it's not so unique ..
I think a high percent of guys experience this rush.
I'd love to understand it more.
MrFisher said it well when he said a warm personality usually makes this go away.
No matter how nice I look, I never want to make a man feel intimidated.
But I have to admit, when a guy uses a super hot woman as reference...I get a little intimidated
I don't see many of the prostitutes show their faces here, so it's often times a surprise when that door opens. Most of the time a prostitute is OK looking. But to be intimidated by a woman, whether she's a prostitute or not has never been an issue for me.
Several of the providers that post here would do that to me. Anybody else feel that way.
I am in awe that some of these ladies choose to spend time with me, and then while in my presence always want to suck and fuck me. But intimidated? No.
I'll say this, I was absolutely, no doubt liberated the moment I stopped caring what people think of me. I mean when you think about it, you can't change what someone thinks about you without compromising what it is that makes you, you. So why bother trying. And, when you don't care what someone thinks about you, they cannot intimidate you, in fact they have no real power over you.
I agree you can be in awe, and I think that may be what you meant, but intimidated, you have to allow them to intimidate you.
Take note, young ones.Markets herself in a way that makes you feel intimidated, two things may be happening:
1) you made need some intensive courses from JDU so u address ur own personal insecurities.
2) she is not marketing herself well.
My guess is ure dealing with #
I have a hard time believing that they would want to be with me...I've been with an amazingly beautiful woman recently who made me feel like the king of the world for a night and still can't believe it really happened...
And before the whole "yeah, but it's P4P so why wouldn't she want to take your money" responses start rolling in...yeah I know, but I still see myself as the misfit 400 pound fat guy rather than the 230 pounder I am now...it's going to take time for my self-confidence to catch up with that...
Regardless of who you are or what you look like, they don't WANT to be with you - it's their job. You could be Matt Damon - and they'd still charge you for the evening. Honestly, they'd rather be out shopping, getting their nails done, watching Oprah, reading bedtime stories to the kids or whatever. It is a job.
IMHO, you are really short changing yourself when you don't let go of that and let her do her job - which is to make you feel good. And there are some ladies who are VERY good at making you feel good over and above the sex. Sounds like you ran into one - if I were you, I'd book her again...
I have very much enjoyed every provider I've been with and have nothing but respect and appreciation for the job they do, and what they've done for me...I'm not letting my self-image issues get in the way of enjoying the life...
The question was whether I am intimidated, which I'm not...but, job or no, I still have that nagging doubt, that fear of rejection that has marked most of my adult life...but I get past that pretty quick, believe me...
I had similar issues growing up. Not size-wise, but I was considered ugly when I was a kid. I was made fun of pretty much my whole life until I went to high school, and when I got there, I'd just had my braces removed and was actually pretty hot. But the constant beating down of my self esteem up to that point- all through my formative years ever since I can remember- had left me feeling very ugly no matter what. So much so that when people ogled me or complimented me, I thought they were actually making fun of me. I didn't believe them. Oddly, I've always been a strong person, so it didn't affect my values. Just the picture I had of myself, and how much I opened up to others. I was painfully reserved (to speak was to be beaten down), and this was taken for snobbery in HS. Then one day, I'd had enough, and decided that I needed to do something about it. I discovered the secret to happiness (see Russbbbj's post above). Now I have almost indomitable confidence. But every now and then my old self will catch me off guard. Luckily I don't let that affect me, and like you, I get past it quickly.
But know this: You are a deeper, stronger, and more interesting human for having gone through this. I would never wish on anyone what I went through, but honestly, I wouldn't be who I am (and I absolutely love and adore who I am) if I hadn't experienced the things I did. When one has been cut deeply, one has more room for deeper happiness. I'll even go so far as to say this: until you've truly hurt, you can't truly love.
Though I am stunned at how smoking hot some of these women really are, and why did I not think of the hobby sooner. Where I live, the selection is very limited, so I make the cost of my hobby part of my travel.
I couldn't move, held in the electric gaze of that vixen of vice (only the best kinds of vice, mind you).
Then I realized I was just VERY horny.
Game on!
ut in all fairness, I had known OF her for a while, and had kind of serious crush on her.
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Nervous, sure. I get nervous in new social situations or when meeting new people. But I wouldn't be intimidated by a provider's beauty. This is a sure thing. As long as you are clean, safe, respectful and don't short the donation, you're going to get laid. What is intimidating about that?
I was quite stunned by her beauty. Not sure what it was about her...
Early in my hobby years I wanted to see a certain beautiful milf. She had the greatest pics, and the greatest body. Her ad stated that she wasn't taking any new clients, so I thought if I saw her doubles partner, I would have an in. The doubles partner was young, tan, sexier than hell, and also gorgeous. She was way out of my league. I knew it would be a difficult session, but I really wanted that possible reference, so I set it up.
When I walked in, I was dumbfounded. She was way more than I even expected. I could hardly speak. By the end of the session we were having so much fun I forgot about the first lady, and wanted to schedule the doubles partner again. I later found out that she wasn't as young as her ad stated. No matter. She became a beloved atf. I have so many great memories of her. She retains four of my top ten sessions ever, including #1.
I also learned that here on TER, no lady is out of my league.
There are women who are so stunning that normal action around them is very difficult. Luckily, normal friendliness will help you overcome that. I remember the first time I saw a national Top 100 woman. I was waiting to see how I would react, but didn't have to wait long -- she's about the friendliest person I've met in the hobby, and she had me relaxed and in the moment in less than a minute.
Damn, the intimidation ended right after 11 stunningly beautiful ladies played musical blow jobs and sucked every guys cock at least once. And then the fun began.
I feel intimidated by some girls. So much so that I don't approach them. I get intimidated mostly by tall girls (maybe because I'm on the shorter side). I always thought money was a panacea to have everything that I've missed in life (high school/college) but guess what, the insecurities remain.
But I'm pretty sure I would feel that way if I were to ever meet Marla Lyons (TER ID: 274125). She is transcendentally beautiful (IMHO).
Damn, you are right!
Intimidated no. The second provider I saw I initially wanted to wait and see later down the line due to just being nervous my first time. Well after all my plans fell thru she was the last one I knew I wanted to see at the time and I ended up passing verification. I had a blast and she was awesome knowing I was somewhat new to this. I have yet to repeat with her but plan on it later this year. I have yet to see another provider that hit all my look likes quite like her.
Several of the providers that post here would do that to me. Anybody else feel that way.