I think girls and guys have a very different point of view about losing their virginity.

Most girls think like London ,  they see it as "sacred" associated with deep feelings for "the loved one", almost a religious thing...

For most guys it's a simple rite of passage to manhood and to feel how it is to stick their dick in a pussy for the first time...nothing more...

Don't know who's wrong or right, blame porn or the church...