I had a guy e mail me and say, " I normally never pay for it, so this is a first for me."
NORMALLY NEVER PAY FOR IT?
Well, I said, " I normally wouldn't be with you unless you did pay for it." DELETE!

Why bother to say such stupid things. I just don't get it sometimes. It's funny when you think about it.

Sometimes I think they are trying to make us feel special when they stuff like that like "I never pay for it but you're worth it" or something.  Kind of a backhanded compliment.

The idiot's probably paid for it his whole life just not directly -  I'm sure he's taken his dates to dinner, bought gifts and so forth.   All guys pay for it in the end, just some more directly than others.

He's probably a newbie Ava. Just doesn't know how to get past his locker room stuff. I do admit it was a pretty stupid way to introduce himself. He needs to learn how to say, "Hi, I just saw your profile and would love to meet you!"

They tend to think we will look more highly on them if they have never done this before...wrong, just the opposite.

I never pay for it either.
Except when I want to see a real woman instead of my right hand

because if he cannot recognize that his expenditures on courting women is just indirect costs, he could not possible calculate cost of goods in any business.......

typical jerkwad statement from the civie boys who think they are better than everyone else..dont you love our little idyllic hobby world..

What a stupid e-mail. Way to TRY to start a potential friendship on the wrong foot.

Come on! I did make the similar mistake my first time. LOL

He had 32 reviews. That's what made his statement even funnier. And even if he was a newbie he should have kept his arrogant mouth shut. I've never had a newbie say that.

and has the gall to say I never pay for it?  Oh I know where he is... floating happily up the de nial.