confronting them and having them say "a friend was playing a prank" is a good starting point.
In all reality, the signs are all over the place and right there in front of you. I don't even know where to start.
But what are some signs that someone who is married is hobbying or not? Any minute difference in gestures?
I am asking this because I am trying to find something in my family. I will leave it at that.
Hobbyists usually wear a red carnation in their lapels.
Hey Prepkid,
In my case, I've been extremely careful of what I do on my computer. I have different accounts for the family members who MAY use my computer when I am not home. I solved a lot of that issue of computer sharing by purchasing a laptop for both of my daughters and a nice computer for the S.O..
Outside of that...
You need to listen carefully of that person you think may be a hobbyist and many times it's hard to pick up different nuances of how their thought process might be different from the past.
Serpius
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But seriously, if the person is being discreet, and unless you are Sherlock Holmes' reincarnation, what do you hope to find?
Of course you can snoop into their affairs and try to steal their cell phone and look up the numbers on it, but do you really want to go there?
Curiosity killed more than one cat.
Leave this alone is what I would counsil.
"Don't Ask & Don't Tell" !! This Hobby is like "Belonging to a certain secret society" !
... That should do it.
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