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Posted By: prepkid
I wanted to shift gears a little bit.
How can a client make a provider fall in love with him?
Creative and practical ideas will be appreciated.
This industry is a business... The providers are selling a service to customers. Did you ever hear the phrase that "money cannot buy love" Or "love is free" ?
An emotional connection is not a service, but rather a part of human nature. This is not the place where people go to form traditional relationships. If that's what you want, you're looking in the wrong place and should be seeking a girlfriend instead. Providers do not sell love or friendships.
There's an informal set of rules called the "Escort's Handbook" One of the highest priority rules is : never date a client. There are other rules such as not revealing your real name, etc... but the aforementioned is near the top of the list.
As soon as a provider stops charging a client money, then she loses her ability to support herself financially. She may not realize this is she stops charging only one client, but still charges 9 others. However, this can lead to a chain reaction. Just like one person throwing a cigarette butt out the window on the highway - this single act of littering does not cause a mountain of garbage, but if 1,000 cars drive by and do the same thing it will.
There's no point in her retaining her profession if she didn't seek money from it. If this were the case, she may as well service people for free by visiting swingers clubs and the like, rather than charging money. She knows her goal and may very well be dependent on what she does for a living.
Most providers who wind up getting married or having seriously relationships do so with men that they have never once seen as a client in the past...