Seems too much work and confusion for my taste. I would move on. Don't pick the one's that seem to require much effort, doubt, and credibility. Those are the ones to avoid. There are plenty of ladies out there that will meet your needs without all of the frustrations.
If you are indeed interested in these types, and she has given you sufficient evidence, then be my guest if these are the ones that interest you. I however would not even attempt, there is too many out there to chose from. Good luck!