I love LA Kgirls and have been hobbying for the past year. I've left ALL good reviews for LA providers. I've left a few mediocre reviews for OC ladies. Suddenly, about since last month, LA bookers have not been answering my calls.

I've subscribed to national blacklist to check if I was listed, but I'm not.

I've even texted a couple bookers to see if I could get any kind of explanation, but no reply.

Anybody have any advice for me?

Thanks in advance!

Kind of a joke, but sorta' serious.  Google "Soup Nazi" if you're too young to know the reference.

Good luck!

Then you will know for sure.

A while back, after I took a 6 month break from the K girl scene, I thought I had been BL'd, as nobody would return a call or TXT, but the dry spell ended.

If the booker for a girl you saw a month ago doesn't reply, then you know something is amiss.

smoke without fire , it may not necessarily only be your review ratings as much as their content and more important possibly your behavior- possibly pressuring K-dolls into bbfs.

 This speculation but in  your review Nuka/Liza whom you rated a 6 for performance  [...moderated...] that in itself is ground for blacklisting especially if you are a repeat offender.   

Your review of Sweet Rebecca is both unflattering and you contradict yourself on more than one occasion. While beauty is the eyes of the beholden giving one of the prettiest K-doll Ina ( Judy's Twin Sister Kimmy) a 6 for looks does not do her justice.

Bookers en mass do not blacklist a responsible John for no reason . So if you have actually been put on BL you  need to review and  evaluate your behavior ,your attitude and how you treated the K-dolls. Besides that it seems your low rated reviews are inconsistent with the ratings of  more experienced hobbyists for the same K-doll. That in itself may not be serious combining it with other concerns especially attempting bbfs is cause for blacklisting.

Most of the K-agencies/ bookers don't subscribe to the NBL and instead have their own internal system.      


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Maybe they are just busy?  Sometimes they respond to me, sometimes they don't.

As for the grade inflation/reviews.  AHHHH, I hate that!

I've seen so many reviews of 8, 9, and 10's but when I see them they are a 6 or 7.  Of course I don't actually write 6 or 7 in my own reviews (since I also don't want to be blacklisted) but am generous with a 8 or something.  LOL....if you read the review however, you get an idea of their real score.

Thanks for the reply!

But what can I do now? I'll try to give a more lenient review.

I gave those honest reviews hoping others could benefit from my experience. But if it's gonna cost me visits to kdolls, I'm definitely not going to jeopardize that...

I'll do what it takes to get in good standing again. Any ideas?

Again, thanks for the insight!

Most posters complain about grade inflation. Someone who submits reviews according to his experience is hung out to dry. Handing out 8s, 9s, and 10s like its free lunch doesn't help anyone including the providers.

You were probably a difficult customer and felt too dominating (bully) for them. They see a lot of professional working men that usually are one shot guy and allows the girl to be in total control of the hour. They also leave big tips and never write a review. The bookers know them well and love them, so why would they wanna put up with you. If you wanna get back into the game, get a new phone and start over...

Why dont you just keep doing what you are doing. Seems like you want to see Kgirls but then you are willing to give up your principles on the reviews to just see them??

How will anyone trust your reviews from now on?

If you were in your opinion honest about your reviews why change? Just to see Kgirls?

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As someone else said you can start a new using a new phone # and build your credentials with a few second tier bookers whose references are acceptable to the major bookers.

With regards to your reviews there is more than one way to skin the cat without compromising your integrity or the ability of the K-doll to earn a living. 6's and 7's are not going to translate into a successful 3 month tour of duty in such a competitive market where inflated ratings are the norm. It is sometimes better to pass on a review tab to write one that stop the job of a newbie K-dolls in it's tracks before it takes off. Agencies invest in every doll and no investor like to see his investment sour by a single review.

If the issue is simply reviews I do not consider your situation terminal. If the issue is more serious than you have a problem that if you don't recognize and correct will lead you to a similar situation whether you embrace a new identity or not. The dolls are high volume and cannot afford rough or pushy Johns and yes there are enough lawyers , business men , hi tech and entertainment types who are gentle , considerate and generous to the K-dolls so the bookers would rather work with them than someone who is considered difficult or troublesome.

Over 110 K-dolls on average say each see 6 clients per day yet onlyabout a dozen new reviews a day means most clients get serviced anddissappear into the works u tilt he next time with no reviews forthcomings.  



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New Tracfone, new TER ID, new respectful attitude toward the girls ... new everything and start over.

OP:  Your reviews are definitely the problem. You give too many 7s and 6s. And if you tried to get Lizi to go BBFS, then that's a problem too. You can easily get blacklisted for that kind of thing. (I'm not saying you pressured her, but your review makes people wonder.)

Listen - I'm all for honest reviews. As a reader, I want honest reviews. But the reality is, if you are TOO negative, you will pay a price for that. Remember, when you give a negative review, you are hurting the girl's ability to earn. So the question to ask yourself is, what is more important to you? Seeing these wonderful k-girls or writing fully honest reviews?

Some guys here will give me a lot of shit for saying that, but I'm just telling you the truth. Giving a bunch of 7s and 6s will ensure that your phone calls and texts get no response.

So follow that advice if you don't want to see any more k-girls

Haha, thanks, but I love getting laid by these beautiful kgirls. I'm sorry if the review gave the wrong impression, but I'm not pushy. If a provider says no, then I don't try to press it.
For the most part, I have great experiences. My ratings were probably not so inflated. I try to keep them down to earth. I've definitely learned my lesson.

I'm hoping to be a little more active in hobbying, as I recently broke up with my gf. Hopefully, this all gets resolved soon.

I really appreciate all the advice!  =)  

Thanks again!

So you actively pursue BBFS?

Great.

I follow the rule my Pappy taught me, "If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing".  The corollary, "When you got something nice to say, shout it out!".  In other words, tell the brothers about the good providers...suck it up and don't go back to the bad ones.  The free market has a way of weeding out the bad ones without you getting mud all over your pecker!