The get what they want from the man then really who's got the control? It's yin and yang. I feel.

I don't think so.

All I can say is that there are women who would rather suffer or die than sell themselves for any dollar amount or guarantee of security.

I cannot say what exactly differentiates them from women who can and/or will without reservation (and possibly- like myself- truly derive satisfaction from it).

Self-esteem or lack therof?  A profound sense of enlightenment or acceptance of the nature of the world?  Who can truly know?

Interesting topic.